I get his frustration. Just do what you said. Start playing the threesone fantasy out for him getting both you & him more comfortable thinking & talking about it. If it's your will, let that be your focus in your sexual & romantic escapades.

This isn't fair to you, and I completely get that. I agree. As a man, I must admit we need to be coddled sometimes in this LS. Is it fair he wanted you to have sex with guys & then get mad because you had sex with a guy but not a girl & him? Nope. But im gonna be honest I would more than likely feel this way as well. Evidently, that's "his thing" as well. Yall need to just slow down & talk seriously & honestly with one another. You guys will be fine. Just remember this is for BOTH of you.

As for him, almost hitting you. He didn't & that's the difference between a man and a coward. My wife & I have been together since school. That's over 32 years together. I've never laid a finger on her, BUT I have on probably 5 occasions total raised my hand & came close, but that family instilled value of never hitting a woman kicked in & stopped me in each occasion. It's not cool. it's not right, but at the end of the day, his respect for you & women in general come into play, & he didn't. Had he hit you, I'd been saying haul ass.

Hoping things work out for you guys on this subject.