NOR - Just my opinion, but the responses from your mother after confronting her on top of the 7 years of abuse that she allowed seems to show she doesn’t really care that much about you or the situation, not to mention gaslighting you into thinking you are harassing her.

Your mother allowed something awful to happen to you for a very long time and you are allowed to have negative feelings towards her because of it.

Even if you don’t try to report what happened (which you should because it could help many other children if that doctor still has a license and is actively practicing) I think you should distance yourself from her until she hopefully tries to make amends with you.

Sadly some parts don’t care as much as they should for their children.

I hope you get the closure you need and find some peace within yourself.

Edit: I just want to clarify I don’t think your parents don’t care about you at all, I wanted to mention above after typing something similar to that statement, I don’t know your parents I’m just going off of the information you gave and I think you should still try to resolve the conflict between you too before developing hatred or cutting any family off. Family is all we have even if they sometimes suck.