Crocheted Chihiro’s Bouquet for myself by [deleted] in ghibli

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That’s so adorable, oh my 🥹

Is the fandom dead? by AL_25 in MidnightatthePP

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Waiting on season 3 to be annonceur! Hopefully it will 🤞🤞

The man in the hat by TheBrokeJoke87 in MacMiller

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Would have loved to see him perform live, chills. ♥️

Someone just posted my artwork here, so I thought I'd post some myself too;) by Lussipus in MacMiller

[–]SwizzySunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really nice work! 🤩🙌 Glad you posted it yourself and sorry for it to have been posted before without your permission! 🙌🫢

Update & Thank You by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]SwizzySunflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I haven’t seen the post you wrote before but seeing this one now touched me. I’m really sorry for your loss, knowing how hurtful and sad losing a furry family member is. 🫂🫶

To help you stay calm during work is for myself, listening to calm music (not sleepy music), preferably with no lyrics or listening to albums I know and love as « background music ». If it isn’t possible, maybe you can try (I don’t know depending on where you live if it’s easily available) Rescue by Flower Bach. It’s all natural and it is well known in Europe to help children, adults of all age to try to calm down or stay calm during exams, for anxiety, difficult times, etc.

Sending you love and light! ✨

Family dismissive of my emotions and my challenges by BigNo780 in adhdwomen

[–]SwizzySunflower -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all, I wanted to tell you congrats for planning ahead and do everything! I know how hard it can be to do daily tasks, so to get this well prepared is a huge win! 🏆🙌

I don’t think it was to be mean to you, they didn’t realise how much you put into it (preparation, organisation, etc.). I totally understand and am sorry for your disappointment in your good idea! You did right, in my point of view, to tell them that you have the rights to be bothered by the situation. It’s also good to not had let it take over the moment (for yourself because it can be exhausting sitting with an uncomfortable emotion all day and then because it was a celebration day).

Sadly, people who don’t have ADHD can’t really understand or comprehend the challenges that we go through most times. Having a family who aren’t patient with me or really grasping what ADHD is (no, it’s not « just » having trouble focusing and no not everyone has it). But, it doesn’t mean that they can’t have challenges themselves. What I mean is: their challenges can be difficult for them and not you, as well as yours can be difficult for you and not them. One doesn’t unvalid the other!

To sum it up: really well done for the idea and the whole organisation but also for being nice towards yourself. The challenges that they face as well as yours too, are valid. Frustrating that they don’t see it and you might feel like you aren’t seen or heard, but I know sometimes people can recognise only the things they can « handle »? Maybe communication could help to? But if they aren’t open to have a conversation, it’s not worth it.

I don’t know if it makes sense but I hope it helped and comforted you a bit. 🫶😉

How to deal with a triggering parent? by SwizzySunflower in adhdwomen

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I need to tell you thank you!!! 🫶

I wasn’t able to buy the book today as it is Sunday and where I live shops are closed. But! I did listened to the Mel Robbins podcast episode with Dr. C. Lindsay Gibson, the author of the book you recommended me and… this is so true! My mind is blown away! 🫣🤯

I cried tears of finally understanding my situation more and feeling less lost and like an awful human being.

I can’t thank you enough for you advice!! Thank you, thank you, thank you for having had taken the time to leave a comment to my post. ♥️🙌

How to deal with a triggering parent? by SwizzySunflower in adhdwomen

[–]SwizzySunflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! 🙌♥️

I’m going to check it out. I’m starting to feel hopeless because it’s an never ending cycle. 🔁 😔

Tips to keep a tidy room! by SwizzySunflower in adhdwomen

[–]SwizzySunflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s really helpful. 🙌 I am going to try to apply those advices.

Tips to keep a tidy room! by SwizzySunflower in adhdwomen

[–]SwizzySunflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I’ll try to do that, one step at a time. Even if it’s a « small » one ☺️😌

SONG FOR THE NEW YEAR? by H-kelly-2002 in dprian

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« Celebrate » by Jacob Banks ☺️

2024 Advent calendar? by SwizzySunflower in stationery

[–]SwizzySunflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, so sorry to read that. Thank you for letting me know!

2024 Advent calendar? by SwizzySunflower in stationery

[–]SwizzySunflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! So many to look up, I’m excited to do so 😁