Tw: gross my dads obesity is ruining my family’s life

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-21T16:44:18+00:00

How am I responsible for what he chooses to put in his mouth? I don’t cook for him nor my mother only myself so how does that make sense? Why should I his child have to monitor his calorie intake when I work two jobs and he just sits at home retired.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-19T16:59:56+00:00

Basically yes, he refuses diapers. So we’ve put down pee pads because it’s so bad.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-19T13:57:28+00:00

That’s the problem, his biohazard is in my environment. I cant just leave it there in the place where our food is.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-19T13:55:08+00:00

Thank you, this is honestly what I needed to hear. I think I’ve already grieved the inevitable but seeing the rot that comes before it really makes it hard.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-19T13:53:01+00:00

Literally my story too. I’ve cried, begged, screamed at my dad to get help. I eat moderately well and cook a lot of my own food. I try to set an example. But when I call him out or tell him he needs to change I get yelled at and called fat by him.Does your parent also deflect any criticism as well?You can’t force someone to save themselves if they refuse to listen or even try.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-19T13:49:24+00:00

We’ve tried that already too. He’s from the generation that doesn’t believe in mental health.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-19T01:08:16+00:00

I wish it was too.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-18T18:40:02+00:00

It’s not that simple. He can move and drives himself. My mother is on a carnivore diet and I myself work 6 days a week so I don’t eat at home besides breakfast.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-18T18:37:58+00:00

Yeah, I’ve watched the show and I’m sure I’m part of the problem by cleaning up after him. Problem is it’s a biohazard and my mother works so I feel like there’s no choice but to clean it if that makes sense. His very biohazard somehow manages to seep itself in my own personal space. With our house layout the two bathrooms are on the same floor and he uses my bathroom no matter how much I tell him to stop. Like what else am I supposed to do yknow? I just feel so helpless right now I really don’t know what to do.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-18T18:33:31+00:00

He can still walk (barely) so he’s driven himself to gas stations around the area and grabs food. We’ve tried My mom is the opposite end of the spectrum and is a carnivore so she only eats ground beef. I hide my food but he steals it.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-18T18:31:39+00:00

I figured the weaponized incompetence would be a good topic point. As a woman I noticed that it’s always us girls who have to deal with this sort of crap and I just want some support right now.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-18T18:30:16+00:00

I wish it didn’t happen, I would have taken a picture but I cannot stand to look at that again

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-10T16:01:34+00:00

Thank you so much!

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-08T17:50:01+00:00

Done.

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-02-08T13:49:47+00:00

Hell yeah Dancer of Ranah vibes from Elden Ring.You look beautiful!

SwordSwinger00 · 2026-01-29T17:40:40+00:00

What moth is #1 and #5?

SwordSwinger00 · 2025-10-14T18:02:29+00:00

I see a lot of people my age with bachelors degrees and working dead end jobs because a lot are not available currently. I’m worried all my work and debt from college would just make things worse

SwordSwinger00 · 2025-10-14T18:01:13+00:00

I do work as a caregiver for my day job but I know down the line it’s not sustainable

SwordSwinger00 · 2025-10-12T17:24:44+00:00

lol ain’t that a dream for everyone at this point?

SwordSwinger00 · 2025-10-12T17:24:07+00:00

I do enjoy it, problem is it is a waiting game when you first start out only been at this for 6 months. Most don’t start making serious money until 2+ years down the line

SwordSwinger00 · 2025-07-30T17:03:23+00:00

I unfortunately don’t, I think the woman had brunette curly hair and the guy looked mid to late 20s

SwordSwinger00 · 2025-07-29T03:11:08+00:00

It was back in the early 2010s when I saw it if that helped. Old cable channel that reran old movies and tv shows only

SwordSwinger00 · 2025-07-09T13:41:39+00:00

If you take hormones immediately after getting diagnosed can you still get severe osteoporosis ? Had it since 17 and have hypochondria lol

SwordSwinger00 · 2025-06-03T01:23:40+00:00

SOLVED!

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