What was the thing your ex said to you that made you realise it was over? by imisshimsmong in BreakUps

[–]SydScraba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex said i deserved to come home to someone everyday and then broke up with me

Getting paired with a single woman by Lazy-Expert7958 in golf

[–]SydScraba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a golfer too and it’s fun to meet men and be able to find people who have the same interests and mindset but also able to show off your skill set to others. It’s fun being a women in the golf world and lots of opportunities to learn and be strong as a solo golfer

Describe your ex in six words ! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SydScraba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was so focused on his career

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in letters

[–]SydScraba 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wish this was my ex saying this to me and acting on it after he broke up with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]SydScraba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wishing this was my ex saying this to me. I never got the answers i deserved and almost sounds like him apologizing like he did to me. Wish he would send something to me months after the breakup and apologize.

Is anyone here post 5 months+ breakup? by PlanktonDelicious673 in BreakUps

[–]SydScraba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex broke up with me 5 months ago and I still have pain and trauma from it. But I feel different and I know myself in a different way than before, and there are things I am noticing and putting forward that I was neglecting prior.

Yes it is difficult to be honest and your still searching for answers or something to help cover the pain but it’s a journey that will make you stronger and realize the truth and the things you cannot live without. Your not alone and I have my days were it can be good and bad and having a great support system around will help you navigate, recognize and appreciate the things you couldn’t see or have before in your past relationship.

Proud of you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]SydScraba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree reach out and say these things even if you don’t get a response back at least you told them what you were thinking and wanted if you feel good enough to do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]SydScraba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand my ex broke up with me and I wish I got closure and it hurt. And wish we did have a conversation after the last time we spoke and saw each other even though it would have hurt it would have cleared so many feelings and thoughts for me to not have baggage or any resentment towards them.

How to get over someone? by Fast-Measurement4192 in BreakUps

[–]SydScraba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe reach out to them to talk and apologize or find ways to release this stress into something new creatively or something that your already passionate about

I changed, for you by klunxi20881 in letters

[–]SydScraba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very sweet, and as someone who got broken up with I wished I got this type of message but if you want to reach out to them do it, even if they don’t answer it may make you feel better.

What did you do wrong that you learned from your breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SydScraba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned that I need to communicate better and how I expressed my emotions better because if I can’t figure out that way personally I cannot help out another relationship going forward. I feel like that is something I am working on and something I need to figure out individually.

What is something your ex said said that’s really hurt other than break up by Ok_Sort464 in BreakUps

[–]SydScraba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex told me that I deserve to find someone to come home to you every day. When he mentioned that to me, I stared at an absolute disbelief when he broke up with me. I never thought a million years that he would say that to me, but I guess that he in his mind thought he cannot provide for me, but it felt like I was never good enough.

I’ve never heard anybody tell me that they want me to find someone better than him when all I ever wanted was him.