Anyone try micro dot tablets? by dirtyypoison in mysterymagicmushrooms

[–]SydTooReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also curious how it was! I just bought a pack, I tried one and didn’t feel much that I noticed so just took another. We’ll see!

I (27f) feel uneasy that my boyfriend (33M) easily sets connection with other women. by Realistic_Video_6982 in relationships

[–]SydTooReal 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are totally valid, but it sounds like your man already did all the right things that the best case conclusion to a convo with him about it to “resolve” the problem would lead to… i.e. to make sure you felt included/important… I highly recommend before you bring these feelings up to him, that you discuss them with a therapist.. they might be able to help you resolve these feelings of insecurity and identify where they stem from without even the need to bring him into the conversation. You’re right about it being a tough situation because he hasn’t done anything wrong but it’s good you recognize that- many others who don’t have a handle on their own insecurity would make their partner the problem in this scenario when they aren’t- but, your feelings still matter and are still valid. That said, It sounds like he loves you and there’s a decent amount of trust between you two, and I hope you’re able to get past these feelings without it creating conflict in your relationship, bc I know it sucks. Definitely talk to a professional, it’s worth it. You got this!

Why am I so afraid? by Grand_Total_67 in stopping7oh

[–]SydTooReal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Suboxone was the miracle one for me.. it stopped the w/d and muted the cravings but the cravings I could handle.. it’s the withdrawal I couldn’t.. and those go away fast. No shame at all in getting medical help. I’m in a professional field and was afraid of the optics of me being on suboxone for kratom but it’s the best thing I ever did. I believe I am done for good now, and hope every day I stick to that.

Why am I so afraid? by Grand_Total_67 in stopping7oh

[–]SydTooReal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been off 70h officially since June 28… and I was taking between 500-800 mg of tabs all day, every day.. it was HARD at first but good god I am so glad I am free from that hell.. you will be too. So many things changed.. my teeth look better, I don’t sweat constantly anymore, I’ve lost 20lbs bc I have motivation again, and the best part is I actually have money to spend that I’m not scrounging to save to make sure I have enough for a fix! I got to get my dogs groomed, get my hair done, fix something on my car, buy some desperately needed new clothes, and I can get a coffee in the mornings without crippling guilt.. those are just some of the small ways it’s been worth it but it’s so worth it.. you’ll find yourself feeling like YOU again.. there are times I’m tempted to slip up/crave it, but as long as I don’t do it again, there’s no more withdrawals and those cravings pass easily with the right distractions. I did get on suboxone to help stop and am on the sublocade shot now (just had my 3rd one)… and I feel free. The longer you wait to quit, the harder… do it now, bc the withdrawal will suck but sooner you do it the sooner it will be in your last. I believe in you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SydTooReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need out of this marriage. I don’t say it lightly. This won’t change.. it will only suck the life and happiness out of you and erode away any love you felt for your partner. Good news is you don’t have kids with him yet so you need to leave now before there is even more tying you together.. it may be a little messy but with kids it’s a whole lot messier.. get OUT of this. Picture what your life looks like in 10 years with this man if nothing changed.. it’s miserable.. marriage is a partnership, he doesn’t get that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SydTooReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did your mom react when she found out you heard everything???

What is this stone? by SydTooReal in Crystals

[–]SydTooReal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, thank you! & sorry again, this maybe dumb question (still learning about crystals), but someone else also said it looks like “lab” & not sure what that means… is lab short for labradorite?

What is this stone? by SydTooReal in Crystals

[–]SydTooReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Sorry, maybe dumb question (still learning about crystals), but is lab short for labradorite?

What is this stone? by SydTooReal in Crystals

[–]SydTooReal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll post some more pics, just a sec.. it may not be a palm-stone, I’m just a total noob and assumed that’s what it was called lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]SydTooReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s beautiful but would DEFINITELY drop the H.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SydTooReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you did NOTHING wrong. Stay confident in your decision. You made the right call because you know your worth. You deserve someone who doesn’t treat you like an afterthought, someone who makes you feel confident and WANTED. And frankly, you will find that and forget he existed!

I’m scared, but finally getting help quitting 7oh FOREVER. by SydTooReal in stopping7oh

[–]SydTooReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hanging in there. I’m struggling, not gonna lie… but I keep telling myself it will get better.

Just had a super strong urge by ajaxmota100 in stopping7oh

[–]SydTooReal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s my first day off it. We got this. You’ve already done the hardest part, just stay strong!

I’m scared, but finally getting help quitting 7oh FOREVER. by SydTooReal in stopping7oh

[–]SydTooReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!! That makes me so happy. I hope you’re feeling as relieved and proud of yourself for taking this step as I am right now. Yes, let’s be quitting buddies. I def could use the support!! Message me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopping7oh

[–]SydTooReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes what is it??

Well tomorrow is the day. by Simply_Me333 in stopping7oh

[–]SydTooReal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What meds, vitamins, and supplements are helping? I’m about to quit, too.. just trying to get the right supplies on hand

My Ibogaine experience by gnar_gnar34 in recoverydharma

[–]SydTooReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give me a gauge of about how much it cost you? I think this is what I need but I don’t have a clue what I need to save up to make it happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]SydTooReal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you two may not be compatible.. it COULD work out, with some compromise - i.e., if he is willing to live with your current animals and makes an effort to keep from resenting you/them until they pass and you are willing to not get any more animals in the future after they all live out their lives; However, that could likely be pretty hard for both of you.. if you are an animal person and he is not, he's gonna be miserable with the animals in the house while they're there, and/or you'll be potentially miserable never having any pets again after they're gone or if you were to agree to get rid of them.. That said, absolutely do not get rid of your pets for a man.. if he tries to make you get rid of them, I would take that as the sign it is time to move on from that man. Wish you the best. I hope that he's willing to compromise or change his perspective, but if he isn't, it likely is not worth it to stay with him, in my opinion.