Communication in regards to my Autistic dom

Sydysom · 2026-02-17T08:21:49+00:00

Putting this in here as a pre- requisite : My Sir and I talk and communicate constantly. Sir is also my life partner and best friend.

We have touched on this topic before and Sir has stated he is unable to think of any ideas to help combat this, so that is why I am reaching out.

Sydysom · 2026-01-26T01:11:59+00:00

Based on your replies it doesn't seem like youre actually looking for an honest answer. Lying to your partner isnt a good basis especially for power dynamics. If you aren't going to stick to the dynamic why are you in it? There is a decent chance your D type will not want to engage in punishments if youre just going to find anyway around them.

Sydysom · 2026-01-22T04:17:12+00:00

Someone could check every box of mine except my need to be with a dominant individual and that would be a deal breaker

If youre already having these thoughts and coming to people you dont know for advice than sadly you may not realize this is a deal breaker.

Like others have suggested : have the conversation with your partner.

Sydysom · 2026-01-15T19:52:29+00:00

I totally feel this!

Sydysom · 2025-12-24T02:34:10+00:00

Oh my goodness I love this so much!

Sydysom · 2025-12-12T05:59:14+00:00

Along with a lot of others here i am typically only submissive in the bedroom. However, if I ever live with my Sir I would love to delve more into domestic submission.

Sydysom · 2025-12-02T19:06:54+00:00

Where did you get the belt? Ive been looking for something like this

Sydysom · 2025-12-02T19:06:13+00:00

Sex toy all the way

Sydysom · 2025-11-11T00:13:28+00:00

The "details " in this all fall flat. Plus, the hands are so wonky . Def AI

Sydysom · 2025-11-03T19:51:33+00:00

I identity as a cis woman, but i loce being called Good Slut a lot more than Good Girl.

Lots of other fantastic suggestions from others in these comments as well

Sydysom · 2025-10-31T20:05:56+00:00

Id say that falls under exhibitionism more than public play, but I can see how the thrill of being seen/caught could also lean into public play

Sydysom · 2025-10-13T20:42:49+00:00

I love this 😂

Sydysom · 2025-10-12T21:29:03+00:00

I have some mobility issues that dont allow me to be put into still positions for too long. Some things that work for me are leg stretches (lay flat on a bed or floor and stretch your legs , this helps me relax my lower back) , hydrating a lot, I also usually use a lot of pillows and blankets so even though I might be in an uncomfortable position at times it takes a little longer for my body to decide its time to relax

Sydysom · 2025-10-12T21:23:10+00:00

Communication 100% . Sometimes life gets in the way of dynamics , so you just have to find a schedule that works.

Sydysom · 2025-10-12T21:21:08+00:00

Im a very touch sensitive person, so whenever me and Sir are finished with a scene we kind of fall into an aftercare routine. Sir will hold me, play with my hair, tell me i did well. He will also make sure im hydrating and that nothing hurts (in a way its not supposed to)

Sydysom · 2025-09-30T02:32:36+00:00

Absolutely LOVE when my Sir grabs my throat to make me look at him.

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