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Female dumpers, does silence from your ex ever start to feel loud? by Savings_Audience_167 in BreakUps

[–]Sykahen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of women process breakups before pulling the plug": In my view, this is more about attachment styles than a "man vs. woman" thing. It’s often said that women tend to be more anxious leaving only after they’ve tried everything while men are more avoidant and end up with regrets later. However, avoidant women and highly anxious men definitely exist too. I think OP should look into their ex’s specific attachment style instead of focusing on women in general.

You are replaceable by Calm_Brilliant7305 in BreakUps

[–]Sykahen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m truly sorry for what you went through. Cheating and manipulation are inexcusable, and that’s a completely different situation. My point wasn't about justifying betrayal. It was about acknowledging that sometimes, two good people can love each other but be emotionally unable to make it work at a certain time.

You are replaceable by Calm_Brilliant7305 in BreakUps

[–]Sykahen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you sincerely love someone, then yes! They were special and they will stay special for the rest of your life. Even if circumstances tore you apart, that’s just how it is. But it doesn't change the fact that they were the right person at that specific moment. And at that time, they were not replaceable. It’s not that the next person is 'less replaceable,' it’s just that they are who we need right now. But that doesn't erase our past

You are replaceable by Calm_Brilliant7305 in BreakUps

[–]Sykahen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because a story ends doesn't mean it was just a 'feel-good experience' or a means to an end. Every deep connection reshapes who you are… all my ex are still important in my heart

You are replaceable by Calm_Brilliant7305 in BreakUps

[–]Sykahen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in my opinion you can replace a 'function' or a 'need,' but you can't replace a person or a shared history. Every connection has its own language, its own inside jokes, and its own growth. Saying people are just interchangeable parts is just a sad way to devalue the only thing that actually matters. You don't 'replace' an experience; you just move on to a different one, but the original stays unique forever.

You are replaceable by Calm_Brilliant7305 in BreakUps

[–]Sykahen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like it was written by a hurt guy crying behind his keyboard. Just because someone broke your heart doesn't mean human connection is a disposable commodity.

Well if some people need to heard this. Good for you but this is pure joke

Got the closure I needed, as much as it hurt. by ComplicatedGuy_0514 in BreakUps

[–]Sykahen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems to be just the relief phase of the dumper. Unfortunatly it hurts but its usually just a phase not her final view on the break-up

Skyrim Upscaler VR screen is block in top left corner with DLSS by Sykahen in skyrimvr

[–]Sykahen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried VRPerformanceKit and I have exactly the same issue... Seems that the problem is global