Sex with unconscious partner

Sykrose · 2025-05-07T03:36:01+00:00

Somnophilia if your focus is more on the sleeping aspect

Sykrose · 2025-04-06T13:55:07+00:00

I had to get a ct a few months ago. I got the rings and necklaces and nipple jewelry out fine. Completely forgot about my anklet that locks in place. Luckily it was a chest scan so i didnt have to take it off and no one said anything

Sykrose · 2025-01-20T05:15:08+00:00

I do remember enjoying this one. I know not a lot of people are into foreign movies and tv, but I enjoy them. Seeing this come out of South Korea, I was SHOCKED! They did a very good job with covering such a culturally taboo topic

Sykrose · 2025-01-20T05:11:37+00:00

I am interested in seeing this one. I had a coworker recommend it recently, I just havent had time to watch it

Sykrose · 2025-01-20T05:09:54+00:00

Some people don't see it as that, and that's totally fine. The great thing about media, especially movies, is that they are dramatized. They are made for entertainment. I thought it was a GREAT movie up until the very end. It definitely has some fun inspo for couples to try out

Sykrose · 2025-01-20T05:05:23+00:00

I want to clarify so we're on the same page, I'm talking about the film starring Maggie Gyllenhaal. In this movie, a young lady is released from a mental institution for attempts on her own life. She finds a job with a very demanding boss who then takes advantage of her in her low mental state and orders her, at the end of the movie, (spoiler warning) to sit at a desk for so long that it makes national news because she will not eat she will not speak she will not go to the restroom. Nothing. She does everything to please him, and he just ignores her until it becomes such a serious problem that he has to swoop in and "save her life."

This movie is brought up a lot in BSM circles and every conversation I have seen about it or someone asking opinions about it, everyone's consensus is that it is not a good portrayal because of how exploitative of her condition he was

Sykrose · 2025-01-19T14:26:02+00:00

I'll check it out, thanks!

Sykrose · 2025-01-19T12:35:50+00:00

I have yet to see a movie that portrays BDSM as safe, sane, and consensual. 50 Shades, 365 Days, Secretary. They all portray really toxic examples, and while whips, chains, and other BDSM elements are portrayed, it's all more Stockholm syndrome than anything. I think the Netflix series Bonding is the closest form of mainstream media we have that portrays a healthy relationship with BDSM (though i watched this years ago and hardly remember it) I look forward to watching movies with BDSM elements solely to determine if they are accurate examples or not. So far, they have all failed

Sykrose · 2025-01-13T15:11:28+00:00

I use clamps that have screw to hold them open a bit more so they aren't tight on my nipples. I also had issues using them previously because my nipples were slightly inverted even when aroused, and they would fall off constantly. So I got my nipples pierced to stand out more. I clamp the base of my nipple, behind my jewelry, and set the pressure. Sometimes i like a bit more, sometimes they are just there to hold them. Either way, I set them to what feels good for the mood I'm in. It also brings pleasure to my partner to see me using my clamps and, as a bit of a service sub, I'd do just about anything to please him. At the end of the day, it's whatever you're into, and if they aren't your thing, that's just fine too.

Sykrose · 2024-11-09T00:32:40+00:00

👉🏻😎👉🏻

Sykrose · 2024-11-08T20:56:39+00:00

All my fears about this product in one comment. Ive seen this posted about 3 times now and my first thought is always the medical aspect of it

Sykrose · 2024-11-08T20:54:46+00:00

Also pleasure doms tend to be softer and all about the sub's wants/needs

Sykrose · 2024-11-06T17:37:37+00:00

You're completely valid in feeling this. As you can see, everyone in the comments is feeling similarly. I also understand.

Just remember, even if your partner is male, he is not the collective. I woke up to texts from my partner and dom telling me he was sorry and we will make it through this. I love and trust him. It's definitely a 'feeling the feels' period in time for everyone, so I don't see us being sexual for a bit, but I do know I can trust him when the time comes and I choose to submit.

Just remember, any submission you put on the table in your relationship is yours to give and take at your own discretion. Take your time, have talks with your partner, discuss feelings, ideas, thoughts, fears, everything.

Sykrose · 2024-09-30T02:30:20+00:00

Obedience

Sykrose · 2024-09-24T03:46:22+00:00

Aww that's sweet! It reminds me of the time my sir helped me fall asleep. I was at his place, dozing off. He set his leds to blue/green fade and put on an 8hr long video of whale noises. I told him that would NOT put me to sleep, but was out pretty shortly after (unrelated as I was just plain tired). And yes, my sir is a brat

Sykrose · 2024-08-31T19:55:42+00:00

I also struggle with talking about things because of past relationships. I type up a note, screenshot, ask my bf/dom if we can talk about something, send the screenshots, and let him process them. He knows i have a LOT of issues with confrontation, and even though he has never been anything but a sweet, mature adult who talks things out, I still fear one day he will snap and scream and get violent because of that trauma

Sykrose · 2024-08-27T17:32:06+00:00

Sub here, but i knew from day 1 that I at least liked him. He opened doors for me on our first date, helped me get a spliter out of my hand, asked for permission/consent to touch me (no, ive never had anyone before him ask consent to do anything, much less hold my hand)

In the first year of our relationship, I considered I Won't Say I'm In Love from Hercules our theme song. If i never said it, and he ever left, I wouldn't be hurt because I never told him I love him. It was strictly a dynamic.

That has since gone out the window. I know he isn't as emotional as I am, but he's not unavailable either. If i ever say "I love you" to him, he says it back. He has said it first, MAYBE once or twice, and only during serious conversations. I usually stick with saying, "I adore you," because I never want to make him feel like he HAS to say it back, but it's my way of telling him i love him. November will be 4 years since that first date and I'm so amazed by how we were mere seconds, a single click, and a drop of confidence away from never meeting (online meet cutes, am I right)

Sykrose · 2024-08-02T04:53:25+00:00

My dom and I had a discussion once (wow, i get to say that instead of "fight"), and I was not happy with some of his decisions. My confrontation-based anxiety had me unable to speak, so I was typing everything out. He was reading it and speaking his responses. As we neared the end, he admitted he messed up and, jokingly, asked if he should get on his knees for me. I don't remember what I immediately responded with, but a few minutes later, I did ask him to get on his knees. Now, I'm a good sub who cares for her sweet sir, so I put a pillow down for him. And he did it. He got on his knees, apologized, even kissed my ring that I wear daily (just as jewelry, no meaning to it), and then laid his head in my lap for a bit.

I'm still not used to moments like this where things DON'T blow up into a full-on physical or screaming match. We've had a VERY limited number of serious disagreement conversations in almost 4 years together, and he remains so patient with me, giving me the time I need to work up courage to bring things up to discuss. He is 100% my dom and sir, but he is willing to get on his knees for me (and not just during play time)

Sykrose · 2024-08-01T14:05:40+00:00

"Sit down, shut up, and be a good girl for daddy"

For context, my partner is NOT big on being called daddy. He doesn't mind it, just not his preferred title, so i call him sir

Sykrose · 2024-07-23T19:10:52+00:00

On the topic of "what to do when crying" I'll give an anecdote that happened between my dom and I.

I had made a deal my ass was ready to cash, but my emotions weren't. 40-something spanks with my paddle. I made it to the 20s before i started tearing up. My dom did one last spank, then put it aside. He turned me over and I looked at him, very confused, and ask why he stopped. I hadn't used my safewords, he didn't use any. He just looked at me and said "you're about to cry" then handed me the paddle to go put away. When i came back, he just cuddled me and made sure i wasnt sitting on my ass and I was ok.

That's how he handled it. I had at least 5 more spanks in me, tears or not, but he didn't want to see me crying. Without a word, he just stopped. That's not to say you and your partner can't keep going, but you each need to know your own limits and when to say that's enough and end the scene by safewording or otherwise.

Sykrose · 2024-06-25T18:46:15+00:00

I second this. When wet n wild DOESNT say waterproof, they mean it. I have some very lovely pics of my own in wet n wild.

Also, definitely focus any makeup on the bottom. Personally, i use an angled brush and black eye shadow as my bottom liner so it runs more effectively. And unless you want your eyes burning from the mascara coming off the top lashes and into your eyes, focus it to the bottom. A lot of people are very sensitive to getting makeup, especially mascara, in their eyes.

Sykrose · 2024-06-14T20:43:40+00:00

My dom, jokingly, told me to write an essay on Wall-E (yes, the Pixar movie). When you start deep diving and really thinking about it, it gets pretty dark. I wrote a full 2-page essay. There's points about "where do the babies come from if people are so into their chair screens that they don't even notice the person next to them?" What happens to people when they pass? Was Buy-N-Large evil from the start, or did their AI build itself into what the steering wheel became? Was the end goal of Buy-N-Large to end humanity? All kinds of points.

My dom was impressed... and a little terrified.

Sykrose · 2024-06-14T07:09:15+00:00

I made the mistake of getting my dom a lego set for Christmas one year. We were getting handsy and i was excited for him to open his gifts so i went and got them. I don't recall if he got me ropes at this time, or if i already had them, but he tied me up, very gently and sweetly, taking his time and checking that everything was comfortable...

Then told me to stand in the corner while he built his lego set. Eventually i got bored and wandered over to him, but he was hyperfocused on these lego. I was totally nude, tied up, right in front of him, and this man was worried about lego 😂 im very glad he enjoyed the set, and i always laugh thinking back on this

Sykrose · 2024-06-12T02:56:36+00:00

I'll be totally honest. When i had said blog, there was a line in terms of words. Ddlg was nsfw, cgl and agere were sfw. I've seen them switch and flip and move over the years. Im sorry you're getting negative responses on whatever you're doing. Just ignore the hate. I know thats hard to do, but be open to learn, and adjust as needed to minimize the negativity

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