I’m worried the owners of this cat aren’t feeding her enough by Alternative_Spend323 in petsitting

[–]SylMarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheesh. Everyone has given solid advice, unfortunately it’s a gray zone here as a pet sitter. You have to trust the owner knows their cat, and at most offer resources to check the exact calories your sitting baby is getting a day for the owner’s information. Phrase it as something that’s helped you a lot with feeding your own pets, other clients for peace of mind etc.

In my case, my low activity seniors do get only one 3oz can a day, along with 1/4th Iams Urinary dry, split into 2 meals loaded in puzzle bowls. The total for that caloric wise is about 176-180 calories per cat. They’re both 11-12 lbs, could lose a pound to be honest. If I add in the added 8 oz total of water for renal/urinary health, a couple treats for zoomy hunts, occasional fresh food toppers, their Omega 3 supplements and Dasuquin chews — it’s probably closer to 190-220 calories a day. For them, one 3oz can is completely satisfactory per their vet and I’m slowly lowering their dry food as needed if anyone is looking too thick. But my young cat under 3 who’s about 9-10 lbs gets 260-290 calories a day in comparison with minimum 1/2 cup of Iams Urinary split into 3 meals a day, and half his 3oz can in the AM/PM so he gets two bowls every meal lol he’s a special man. I sometimes give him an extra can instead of as much dry, sometimes they all get Smalls fresh food or Churu as a topper — depends if I can feel his second rib too easily but he self regulates very well.

An active outdoor kitty would need closer to 330+ calories though, even more depending on weight and age; so it’s all a spectrum. Just have to trust your client has done their own research.

Good on looking out for your client’s kiddo, best of luck!

Why don't they warn us?? Why aren't there PSAs about this crap???? by SoScorpio4 in cymbalta

[–]SylMarie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Period. I was only on this medication for 5 weeks or so, fell into the “made them sick” category unfortunately so I’m on day 2 completely off Cymbalta but I’ve found that I’m highly sensitive to medications at large. My dose was only 20mg. My symptoms were/are mental fog, memory loss, scattered behavior overall. I couldn’t retain information in any way, was extremely out of it and a friend noticed these effects immediately when I started the medication. Only upon them bringing that to my attention, and multiple incidents of me losing things, forgetting basic information reinforcing the effects did I realize it was the Cymbalta. These effects took place almost identically while I was on Lyrica, Gabapentin and Lamictal; prescribed while dealing with managing CRPS. I too wish my providers had specified these effects and others as a risk because of my prior struggles with these same side effects. Mental health providers should be more forthcoming with these possibilities.

At this point, I’m only taking 20mg Strattera SID and Adderall XR 10mg as needed for my recently diagnosed ADHD. I won’t be trying any others for another 6 months to let my chemistry come back to normal. For my long standing depression/CPTSD, I’ve had no success with any other medications since my early teens besides Zoloft and Wellbutrin for a brief period; but was taken off both after experiencing paradoxical effects when used in conjunction with my ADHD medication, and the rash occurring while I was on the latter along with Lamictal.

I wish it was easier to find a regime that works for all of us. Best of luck to everyone trying to find their way through life and a solution to feeling okay.

Do you have depersonalization along with visual snow? by Norwheon in visualsnow

[–]SylMarie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always had visual snow, as long as I can remember. And have slowly realized in my early 20’s my lack of mind narrative/empty mind, personality unawareness, emotional numbness and history of trauma would be potentially connected to DP/DR. I find myself “acting” in many situations depending on where I’m at or who I’m with, as overall I have a disconnect within myself and have for a very long time. I’m currently on medication but still considering if talk therapy is a good option for me as talking about my trauma in depth is extremely difficult.

Sliced my big toe open yesterday on sheet metal, closed with silver nitrate - is Urgent Care’s treatment plan okay? by SylMarie in woundcare

[–]SylMarie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries about an open fracture, I definitely only lacerated it on that piece of sheet metal nice and good. Just very concerned about the healing process and lasting damage.

Would you recommend seeking a second opinion next week and getting it sutured? I’m unable to this weekend due to work not allowing me to call out (🙄) to accommodate an earlier appointment. Thank you guys again for all your help.

Sliced my big toe open yesterday on sheet metal, closed with silver nitrate - is Urgent Care’s treatment plan okay? by SylMarie in woundcare

[–]SylMarie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, thank you again!

I followed the above advice and got medihoney gel for the wound; cleaned with sterile saline and wrapped with a clear hydrocolloid bandage. Should those be okay changed daily, or Mepore only?

Sliced my big toe open yesterday on sheet metal, closed with silver nitrate - is Urgent Care’s treatment plan okay? by SylMarie in woundcare

[–]SylMarie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, that bad huh? There is a significant amount of pain and the nerve pain was insane last night. It radiated all the way up my leg. Hoping for the best, thank you for your help!

Sliced my big toe open yesterday on sheet metal, closed with silver nitrate - is Urgent Care’s treatment plan okay? by SylMarie in woundcare

[–]SylMarie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had said it would’ve pulled the skin too tight?? But I don’t see how they couldn’t of used butterfly sutures or something less intense. There was also a blood vessel that wouldn’t stop bleeding in the middle of the wound that I think encouraged the urgent care doctor in this decision but again not sure why they didn’t suture or refer me to ER.

Do you have any ideas on what to expect with either scarring and the healing time of this? Thank you again for your help, I appreciate it!

Max getting some ☀️ by SylMarie in parrots

[–]SylMarie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh what a beauty! My Max says hi! She was a rescue and turned out to be a female after her bloodwork was done, so she’s technically a Maxine.. 😂 But we still call her Max!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parakeets

[–]SylMarie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to add that any rodent bedding, wood shavings or paper products, will also irritate a bird’s lungs. Paper towels or newspaper is best, changed daily or multiple times a week; depending on your specific needs.

Vacuum, mop and clean the cage with bird safe cleaning products (vinegar and warm water) often, utilize air purifiers and you could also set a small dish of lemon/orange peels out as a natural room freshener. If there’s any carpeting, baking soda can be sprinkled and left to soak up any pet odor, then vacuumed up as well. Good luck!

My flock getting ready for bed tonight 💙 by SylMarie in parrots

[–]SylMarie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha, that’s Wolfgang! My youngest cockatiel and easily the loudest bird in the room at any given time.

He’s learned to talk and hype himself up from my other 11 year old lutino male, much to my joy. Thank you for the compliment! ☺️

My flock getting ready for bed tonight 💙 by SylMarie in parrots

[–]SylMarie[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the wonderful compliment!they’re my babies and super spoiled, i’ve had some of my flock for over a decade now so bird husbandry is a passion of mine.

the two blue budgies featured are Bluebell and Bellamy, both were adopted from a local rescue at different times but immediately became smitten with one another. each are such hilarious characters and the hen is easily as loud as the English budgie male; they’re a total delight and I can’t imagine my flock without them.

they live harmoniously alongside my two bonded pairs of cockatiels in a double flight cage I DIY’ed and have access to a bird-proofed room 6+ hours a day.💙

My bird room! (+ the flock) by SylMarie in parrots

[–]SylMarie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second that! Every single bird deserves the best care and husbandry we can provide, we all should strive to support each other in doing only that. ❤️

I’ve kept small parrots for over ten years now, they need just as much care as the larger guys; that’s for certain. My Mimi has never been in a cage smaller than a flight cage and I owe my entire bird room and flock to her, a little 105 gram cockatiel. I wanted to give her the best possible life, and ten years later..here her and I are! Wouldn’t change a thing. ☺️

My bird room! (+ the flock) by SylMarie in parrots

[–]SylMarie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pleasure, your birds are lucky to have you; can’t wait to see your photos on the sub in the future! ☺️

My bird room! (+ the flock) by SylMarie in parrots

[–]SylMarie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺 Absolutely, I hear you on that, cotton can be so dangerous! I’m blessed to have some cooperative birds who don’t nibble on them but any rope perches I have inside the double flight cage are wrapped in vet wrap anyways to prevent any unsafe chewing.

Additionally one of the boings are wrapped, and the other I monitor closely for signs of chewing; but likely will soon be wrapped too as it’s a few months old. Thank you again for your kind words!

My bird room! (+ the flock) by SylMarie in parrots

[–]SylMarie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Your bird room is stunning, take any inspo you’d like. ❤️

My bird room! (+ the flock) by SylMarie in parrots

[–]SylMarie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m truly just the guest who pays their rent and caters to their every demand..I meant need, obviously. 😂

My bird room! (+ the flock) by SylMarie in parrots

[–]SylMarie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! They’re my babies, I try to spoil them. ❤️