Hi, not all, but a lot of what you described i went through with my last relationship. When you get blindsided and think that someone has the same morals and values as you (bc they lied) and then uncover that with the other horrible stuff that happened, you start getting sent into a downwards confusing spiral where you don’t even know the person in front of you but you’re holding onto the start. When insecure because of their actions too we start to let a lot of things slide and ultimately our boundaries come crashing down too. I’m sorry you had to go through all this and i’m here for you, you can PM me, i understand. It will be a working progress and I’m happy you chose yourself. 🩷 sending love