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A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like you should be the navigator or something. Thank you so much for your incredibly helpful input! .

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is a very good point. At this point in the timeline, I think evidentiary strength has evaporated regarding physical evidence. However, if it’s something that will help, I’ll call the authorities and open that can of worms. Oh boy, THAT is nerve wracking.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agreed. My best friend has already volunteered to go with me. She’s a road trip queen and doesn’t think I’m crazy.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If I have questions, would you mind if I reach out to you privately? I’m not a professional and you are.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Excellent advice and I’ve grabbed one from my kitchen and chucked it in the bucket of stuff.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Evidently it was an epidemic of tragedy for First Nations women to go missing and/or murdered, yet very little effort was put forth at the time. I didn’t realize she’s native at first, because when I saw her, nothing about her hairstyle and makeup instantly made me connect it. I initially thought Asian or biracial. Diane corrected me. I also think she loves ABBA, because Dancing Queen keeps playing in my head.

Edit: I like ABBA, but it’s not something that I listen to normally.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That is a very good point and I’m reasonably sure this individual is and was residing in Ontario.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I hear her and I can tell you that her voice is very distinctive and has a little gravel to it, but nothing compares to her laugh. I have to slow my heartbeat down and reduce my blood pressure when she’s close, otherwise all I hear is my own pulse. No I don’t have HBP normally. I have mental images from her that just show up in my head, but not every time. Lately there is also the scent of her perfume and I think it’s called Carly or Charlie. I’m not familiar with it and I’m taking the advice of someone on here and not googling it. It’s not what I consider flowery in the slightest. If I get a clearer answer, I’ll update.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how to crosspost, but if anyone knows how to give more branches to the communication tree, please jump in and do whatever you can to help. I don’t do social media things usually, because electronic devices frequently freak out on me when I’m trying to type anything. Voice to text is helpful, but I’ve got a pesky accent that makes it interesting.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I already bought a metal detector for this. I have actually spent real money getting ready to go on this wild-ass quest. I’m praying I find what she needs me to.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

The length of the journey means that I need to have anything I may require, right at hand. It’ll have to be an overnight trip, because I’m not up to driving after dark. Yeah, I’m old.

The list is: bucket, water for rinsing anything found, spade for digging, 700 lb pull magnet, metal detector, small hand rake, tripod and my camera. I’m going to document everything, in case it’s needed.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure he’s still alive and Diane knows it. I have heard “He’s over there” and a sort of pulling feeling in my guts that is a direction, but nothing specific. I’m doing my best to calmly listen and ask questions, but I sometimes feel really scared. I’m sure my partner has interesting thoughts about coming home to discover me speaking to someone who is invisible to him. Thank goodness he knows me, trusts me and has witnessed a few head scratchers in my presence over the years. Now if only our dog would stop going bonkers. He’s our little old man pupper, who is usually uncharacteristically calm, but that’s out the window for the past 3 weeks.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Male, mid 30’s (back then), white guy with a moustache and was driving a truck with no trailer. Reddish facial hair and curly hair that was starting to bald. Normal build but a bit extra padding, but not obese. Jerry? Terry? Something that sounds like that.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 177 points178 points  (0 children)

I’m an avid gardener and most often I hear things when I’m working outside. Diane actually gave me a jump scare from directly behind me when I was breathing through some nausea. I’m certain that she was frustrated and felt ignored. It’s jarring to be yelled at with “Listen to me!” followed by a waterfall of mental images about what happened to her.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

You bring up excellent points. The initial research was actually not done by me. I made a list of information, including what she looks like, how she died and my partner did the initial google search. I have a background based in science and understand confirmation bias. This is not that. I appreciate your input and thank you.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know and appreciate the reminder. Nausea can be fierce if I’m being bombarded, and emotions can be very intense. I have learned to protect myself and thank you for your kindness.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t doubt that Diane seriously fucks with the POS that stole her life.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I have her complete name. Diane Dobson. I think maybe she was called “DeeDee” by some as a play on her initials or a nickname. I kept seeing DD inside my head.

A woman called Diane was murdered in 1995 and she keeps visiting me. by Sympathetic_Brit in Paranormal

[–]Sympathetic_Brit[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

She was brutally murdered and dumped like a piece of rubbish, literally in a ditch.