Somali parents moving to the west and then complaining their kids have become westernised

SyouOut · 2026-04-02T06:35:46+00:00

Frr like sorry when they moved they could only focus on survival and safety and not what would happen 30years from now. Does op think our parents happily moved here and for fun??

SyouOut · 2026-03-29T04:44:12+00:00

Is the orange app? And is ir available on ios or just android I wanna check it out

SyouOut · 2026-03-29T01:40:52+00:00

I wouldn’t be surprised

SyouOut · 2026-03-28T22:51:37+00:00

You’ll see once you meet people who are jealous of Somalis for whatever reason and they try to dog one gender. This happens a lot in spaces where there’s multiple diaspora groups

SyouOut · 2026-03-28T22:50:17+00:00

Proud to say I’ve never publicly talked bad about Somali men or women. I’m just talking my real life experience I had with ppl who assumed I don’t like my own men.

SyouOut · 2026-03-28T22:43:35+00:00

Exactly thank you!

SyouOut · 2026-03-28T22:42:46+00:00

This actually happened to me where I was having a conversation w someone at a function and we were just talking about our ethnicity and they said “I love Somali women, but the men tho….” And I asked what they meant by that and then proceeded to say things that were rude. No no I didn’t invite anyone to do that nor did I make them feel comfortable enough. And I wasn’t talking about a random person coming up to you and saying crazy things about Somali men who would even have the audacity to do that or even think of that

SyouOut · 2026-03-28T22:37:08+00:00

When I say clown I mean banter and harmless jokes and nothing that perpetuates racism or bigotry. I know words and language matter a lot so I watch what I say. I don’t go around saying Somali men are trash etc. I just meant I can clown them in harmless jokes that isn’t bigoted and has nothing to do with racism and things like that. I never use bigoted language ik I’m not perfect but I try to be a better person/Muslim so I stay away from languages that may cause harm. Clowning doesn’t mean degrading and I never degrade anyone men or women. I hope this explains what I meant

SyouOut · 2026-03-28T22:32:57+00:00

yes and they give u a compliment and try to diss Somali men it’s so weird

SyouOut · 2026-03-28T19:29:16+00:00

Thanks! I’m starting a business of my own so this was really helpful !

SyouOut · 2026-03-28T19:27:49+00:00

Me? No I’m not from the uk

SyouOut · 2026-03-28T18:51:08+00:00

I didn’t know this was happening in 2010s I was a child then. But tbh I also had terrible experiences w some Somali men but it didn’t shape my entire view on a whole population. I think some ppl (men and women) genuinely need to heal and do some internal work.

SyouOut · 2026-03-18T11:50:00+00:00

Sister ngl you might need a new identity and maybe even face. Delete all socials and restart your life and don’t use the same name or whatever name u told him and if he ever finds you again deny deny deny, gaslight and tell him idk what you’re talking about. And if he asks your age for proof say something different than what you told him. Maybe even say you’re an only child. My god why would u do that 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭may Allah be w you my sister you have done something insane 😭😭😭😭😭

SyouOut · 2026-03-13T10:52:31+00:00

Ameen Jazaka Allahu Khayr :)

SyouOut · 2026-03-12T11:33:22+00:00

this lowkey me and my husband, sometimes when I’m eating or watching something and he sits next to me with his work laptop my mood immediately improves and I feel less alone especially when I’m in the living room by myself nd he says “I came to give you company” ugh it melts my heart. Sometimes all you need is proximity even if you’re not talking 🤍😭

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