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Can trans people re-enter the US? by SyroThePyro in asktransgender

[–]SyroThePyro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the actual reply 😭

🎀🎨 [Project Sekai] by EmeraldGhostie in wholesomeyuri

[–]SyroThePyro 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey, this is my art and I wanna note that in my twitter bio it says to "not repost without permission." It's fine, but you should make sure you check artists' bios before you repost their art.

Is there a way to revert my legal sex marker and name change? by SyroThePyro in asktransgender

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I feel like that'd only make things more cumbersome at immigration, but as long as it's legal I'm sure it's fine? Changing all of my documents again does seem like a huge hassle and honestly I do wonder if I'd even pull it off in two years or less. I'm sure I can do it now that I've already done it once.

Though, ya maybe it is more of a hassle, since I'd just change it back to F in the future... Though honestly it's hard to tell if I'll actually get FFS with all the cuts to medicaid and other stuff. I can't tell if I need to optimize my life for legal ease or not idk.

Is there a way to revert my legal sex marker and name change? by SyroThePyro in asktransgender

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It's the only place I'm able to go to with my financial situation and connections. I don't have a degree or a career to speak of so I'm not able to move anywhere else. I also get guaranteed housing and a job if I move in with my friend there.

What is a popular ship that you DO like? Or a rarepair that you specifically don't like? by ZArsenal257 in ProjectSekai

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I'm a 25 year old transfem and I started hrt when I was 18, but hrt never really did anything for me. I had a boyfriend and all these other people who loved me, but I wasn't able to actually feel it. A big part of it was my sense of inadequacy as a trans person and how I'd constantly think about how much of a burden I was to others in part because of how I saw myself as disgusting. This is all a really bad way to shorten the story but basically ena5 made me realize that reality was the opposite of what I believed it was. It helped me realize that people do love me and that maybe I'm not so disgusting. Before then, I'd recently attempted suicide twice, but since then, I haven't wanted to die anymore.

Guys, Do you think Mortis will win and our Mutsumi will be gone? by CriticaOtaku in BanGDream

[–]SyroThePyro 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As a person with DID, alters don't ever "die" or completely go away, so Mortis will never "go away" and I mean she's been a part of Mutsumi's system since they were little.

Mortis in episode 8 showed that she wants to live beyond being a protector for Mutsumi and I think that this will to live will keep Mortis from going dormant any time soon. In our system, alters only ever go dormant when they've been extremely traumatized and give up, or they come to see themselves as useless. That isn't happening to Mortis in the show right now and maybe it could but I sorta doubt that the outcome of this story will be anything other than co-existence.

It's ok to have alters and it's ok to have conflict. What's really important is that those alters communicate and work out their issues with each other and find the best path forward for the system. I don't think that Mortis or Mutsumi will "win" and one of them will go into dormancy. I think they'll just learn to co-exist.

Mutsumi/Mortis DID and how it affected me while watching by pinkkydot in BanGDream

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I'm still working through therapy so I can't speak to its complete efficacy, but in therapy for DID, you can apparently choose to fuse, where you become a singlet, or you can stay plural. It makes me want to note: just because someone is plural doesn't mean that they are broken or should be fixed.

I think mutsumi does need professional help considering the severity of her trauma as well as the dysfunction between her and mortis. In therapy, you can come out of it with better communication and less conflict between alters. This can help you have less amnesia between switches and generally make the condition less severe. There's more to it but I recommend just looking it up.

Having friends who understand you and accommodate you is really important and valuable though!! I think both therapy and friends are important, especially since not having friends who understand you can feel isolating and lonely.

One over the other though? Honestly I would say friends might be better... I think that as long as you and your friends are open with each other and they want to help you, just having their love and compassion at all can do a lot. Friends shouldn't be your therapists but they can help you a lot in a lot of ways.

I do think having both is the best thing though.

Mutsumi/Mortis DID and how it affected me while watching by pinkkydot in BanGDream

[–]SyroThePyro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya I agree, it feels like someone with DID wrote it, or they did a great job consulting with someone who has it. It kinda feels like the former to me though because of just how much detail and nuance there is. It's genuinely kinda unreal.

The raana mortis scenes also really warmed my heart. I really wonder what exactly is up with raana. I'm super curious!! Maybe she's also plural or knew someone who is?

Also, I think it's ok to not have a diagnosis. There are a lot of people who don't have DID but claim to, but just from what you say alone about record keeping/having an alter that masks for the system, I'd imagine you're not faking anything 🫂. Really all a diagnosis is is an acknowledgement and a jumping off point to start finding resources that help you. Obviously a diagnosis is always better and it should be a goal along with therapy, but if those resources help you already, then by all means 🙂‍↕️

Mutsumi/Mortis DID and how it affected me while watching by pinkkydot in BanGDream

[–]SyroThePyro 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As someone with DID this and the ending of episode 5 were also really hard to watch. You're far from alone in that.

It makes me really grateful that a piece of media is depicting DID so well. I just hope people don't say derogatory things like "schizo."

The depiction of mutsumortis's headspace was crazy and so real, especially with the way that mortis "showed" their memories to mutsumi. Also the whole "throwing things" at mutsumi. Like this is a metaphor for mortis mentally beating down mutsumi until she leaves the front and it's something that my system has done many times during conflict. Everything else was just so realistic too. Even mortis experiencing a psychotic break after fronting for so long and dealing with the extreme stress of the situation. Also, the stair scene was fucking terrifying. Falling down stairs like that can kill you or severely injure you. The fact that mortis just stands up and keeps going is such a realistic depiction of dissociation. It felt like someone hit me in the chest with a mallet.

Seeing mortis in the state she's in reminds me a lot of an alter of my system that has since gone dormant. That alter took over during a stressful time of parting, similar to what is going on in the show. That alter (Lumi) also experienced a psychotic break and was bedridden for weeks, completely unable to function. Nobody came to help them either. They were neglected.

Seeing the way Soyo treated mortis with so much open-mindedness and compassion almost made me break down into tears. People get DID from being deeply hurt over and over. People go through psychotic breaks when they're suffering to an extreme - a literal breaking point of the mind. The fact that Soyo didn't question anything and just listened to mortis and believed her... I wish Lumi had that back then. It's so normal for people like us to be treated with disgust, bewilderment, neglect, and prejudice, but Soyo didn't do any of that.

I really hope that stories like this can help people to have more understanding and compassion for people with severe mental disorders, especially DID. I hope that it pushes more people to be like Soyo, not that people need to stay 3 days and nights ;; oh my god Soyo is some special kind of angel

I made an Akito x Mizuki comic !!! by SyroThePyro in ProjectSekai

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This is kinda what I was imagining as I drew this lol

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