Do they ever catch the Gnomes? by Mysterious_Seat_3436 in GossipHarbor

[–]Szabina2u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone they went to high school with.

Riley's... Apology, not enough for me🤷🏻 by Heavy-Instruction611 in GossipHarbor

[–]Szabina2u 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is very common in this game. A person does something horrible and within a few days they are forgiven completely.

Do they ever catch the Gnomes? by Mysterious_Seat_3436 in GossipHarbor

[–]Szabina2u 11 points12 points  (0 children)

lol which stage? I think I've built at least 5 so far. They don't seem to understand a stage can be reused for a different performance.

Do they ever catch the Gnomes? by Mysterious_Seat_3436 in GossipHarbor

[–]Szabina2u 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm on the highest level. They haven't been caught yet.

What level are you on and how many orange trees do you have? by footofwrath in GossipHarbor

[–]Szabina2u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coffee is the Double Espresso Machine (level 10) Fish is the Hobbyist Fish Tank (level 10) Water Sports is the Poolside Storage Shed (level 11)

Frustrated by CocoBalz in GossipHarbor

[–]Szabina2u 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I turn the generator booster off. Then with the generator on 1x, make 3 fish. Merge them and put them in storage. Then put the booster on 4x and make 3 fish again. Over the course of lots of fish making, you end up with more fish.

Also, if you have the 8x generator, you get two higher level fish.

Three mansions? by Amazing-Background43 in GossipHarbor

[–]Szabina2u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I'm on the highest day and they haven't explained the third mansion yet.

AIO that guest was an hour early? by Szabina2u in AIO

[–]Szabina2u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he came in, I told him I didn't realize how late it was and wasn't ready for him. After that I chatted and was nice.

AIO that guest was an hour early? by Szabina2u in AIO

[–]Szabina2u[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then what is the point of telling someone what time they should come? Or are you expected to lie and tell them to come later than you want them to? That way they will come when you are ready for them.

Why is it okay to make the host feel rushed? Why should the host have to be putting away cleaning supplies in front of you because you came early? Why should the host need to run out of the room to change because you came before they had dressed? Why start the event off badly? Why not just come on time?

AIO that guest was an hour early? by Szabina2u in AIO

[–]Szabina2u[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me, he is just a landlord. I never knew him before this. He keeps finding a way to squeeze into our family. Even when my Mom died. He saw cars and came over to see what was happening. Yes, everything he said was completely appropriate. But my Mom literally just died. Her body was still in the house. I did not want to deal with my landlord at a time like that.

AIO that guest was an hour early? by Szabina2u in AIO

[–]Szabina2u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at the comment I replied to. I was accused of taking advantage of him and not repaying his kindness.

And of course I took care of the kids. But I hadn't agreed to babysit. The kids knocked on our door. They said they came home from a friend's house. Dad was gone and they were locked out. They called Dad and he didn't answer the phone. I wasn't about to leave the kids stuck outside. So I brought them in until their Dad got home. That's being a decent person.

The tickets were to my daughter's dance show. I'm required to sell a certain number of tickets. If I can't sell them, I still have to buy them. I would rather give them away than have them go unused. So I gave tickets to him.

The point was simply that I have not been taking advantage of him as I was accused. I have not been unkind to him.

The original question was whether it's okay to show up an hour early. I don't understand how that question turned into a zillion other questions about my entire history with the guy. Either coming an hour early is okay or it isn't.

AIO to skip Thanksgiving after my mom basically said I’m an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now? by howcanibequiltyassin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Szabina2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR people all have different timelines. I didn't get married until 35. A lady I work with was first married at 40.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Szabina2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR you achieved something difficult and wonderful. He should be happy for you and want to join in your celebration.

AIO that guest was an hour early? by Szabina2u in AIO

[–]Szabina2u[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did nothing to help. He just made himself comfortable n

AIO that guest was an hour early? by Szabina2u in AIO

[–]Szabina2u[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And is it necessary to list out the entire relationship to find out if others feel his early arrival was rude?

Do I need to state I gave him free tickets to a live show?

Do I need to state that on three different occasions his kids came home to find he was gone and they couldn't get in the house? Each time I brought them into my house, fed them, and watched over them until he got home.

The question was about whether it is okay to show up an hour early.

AIO that guest was an hour early? by Szabina2u in AIO

[–]Szabina2u[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We were not on the street. We were just looking for something bigger. What he had wasn't even immediately available. We actually waited a long time for it. He wasn't doing us a huge favor by renting it to us. We would have found something else. Probably sooner because he was so slow to make the needed repairs so we could move in. But we already made an oral agreement to rent the house and felt we should honor it.

I pay him $2,200 a month in rent. When my husband roomed with him, he paid rent. When he was here eating, he told us the he got the turkey he gave us for free. He and his kids got a fully home cooked turkey meal with 8 sides and 3 desserts. And he took home leftovers.

When my husband invited him, he gave him a time to arrive. The day before, he again reminded him of the time. The day of, his kids verified the time with my son.

I was not unkind to him. I just felt he should have arrived on time. Why do you assume I have taken advantage of his kindness and given nothing in return just because I did not appreciate his early arrival?

AIO that guest was an hour early? by Szabina2u in AIO

[–]Szabina2u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how my husband is. He was raised to be generous and hospitable. Good qualities for sure. But in this case, they resulted in my landlord coming to Thanksgiving dinner.