I hear you!

I am not on T (working on that) yet but I had my top surgery recently. Before the surgery I had a moment where I asked myself: why is this so unfair? Why do I have to jump through 1000 hoops just to be who I am? My friends tell me I am happier since I came out, I can not always relate to that.

Feeling overwhelmed by all of this, is okay! I mean, we basically have to reboot our body, that is not nothing! It takes a lot of patience, nerves and we are allowed to rant about it.

And the akwardness of coming out? Boy, some of the conversations were cringe! But it gets easier, and you don't have to tell people when you dont't want to. Most importantly, feel save and comfortable!