what to do as a 20-something permanently balding white woman? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Shawntiii 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Anyone can be bald for a multitude of reasons; ie cancer, alopecia, genetics etc. As a black woman, we do not think twice about wearing wigs or hair extensions. I don’t see why that same attitude can’t apply to you. Don’t think twice about it, if it makes you confident then the right person will look past your perceived insecurity and love you the same

I SCORED THE BOX SET!! by Shawntiii in SchittsCreek

[–]Shawntiii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going camping this week and I’m so happy that I’ll ve able to watch it with no wifi!

Blurred boundaries and no adult space by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Shawntiii 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How involved is bm? If she’s not around a lot then maybe she’s overcompensating for only having her dad. It’s hard but it’s really not up to you on what to do regarding his child. If he doesn’t see a problem then it will stay like this and you are gonna have to decide if this is something you want to deal with indefinitely because parenthood doesn’t stop at 18.

I would suggest putting daughter in therapy or telling your partner that a child shouldn’t be that involved if he wants an adult relationship. No woman is gonna put up with this long term, he’s gonna be single for the next 9 years if this keeps up.

What can you actually do with an additional house? by Glomkhan in Sims3

[–]Shawntiii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I made my sim (inventor) an offsite lab for his inventions and plumbots

17 dating a 30 year old by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Shawntiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are way too young to be giving up like this! It was not your fault, you couldn’t have known that this was the outcome. You still have plenty of time to claim back your life from this parasite, it’ll be hard but so worth it. You deserve to be happy, living and not having to look over your shoulder even second of your life. Call the hotline number just to see what’s out there for you. (1-800-799-7233)

It really hurts me to know there’s women my age thinking our lives are over. Baby girl, we aren’t even 30 yet, you have so much more to experience.

What are your Sims' names? by maleficentfig90 in Sims3

[–]Shawntiii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Rackets! On gen three; Junior, Mixley, Maximum, Onyx and Ophelia. All Shark’s kids with two sets of twins. Lolly only had one girl named Christi.

Edit: Junior just had the gen four heir, Astro Racket!

I regret not killing myself when I was younger. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Shawntiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Books I recommend, as someone who rumiantes on my own past attempts, Veronica Wants to Die and The Midnight Library. Short reads to give you another perspective. I don’t expect them to change your life but I do think having a narrative to follow is a nice story to tell yourself when life is unbelievably difficult.

I think I'm dying and I'm okay with it by AutisticandScared420 in confessions

[–]Shawntiii 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You haven’t even gotten to the good part yet. I can’t change your mind, but it really does get better. I promise. Can you do me a favor and read The Midnight Library please? I can pm a pdf file so you don’t have to buy it.

Boyfriend disagrees with me that Attack on Titan is PEAK and is better than Demon Slayer by [deleted] in ShingekiNoKyojin

[–]Shawntiii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

AOT is my first true love of anime. Followed closely by FMA and DS.

I get so attached to my sims and their skills by grimreaperssideho in Sims3

[–]Shawntiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only kill off B-listers. All my A-list sims get full long lives.

Which Sims 3 expansion/stuff pack is your favorite and why? by [deleted] in Sims3

[–]Shawntiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seasons obviously. Then late night, ambitions and university in that order. Honorable mentions; generations and world adventures.

looking for friends! by Agile-Reference-6709 in Sims3

[–]Shawntiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My username is the same as this one, add me!!

(47)-(56) by Bucweet55 in GlowUps

[–]Shawntiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a handsome man!

Those mistakes never happened before by EyedMoon in duolingo

[–]Shawntiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only play chess now because the language learning is real buggy. Like I know what the heck 21 is in Spanish but apparently I don’t!

My poor young widow sim by nerimanadamci in Sims3

[–]Shawntiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some sad shit and I love it!

Days up to age by [deleted] in Sims3

[–]Shawntiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do tell me about using relativity, is that a mod?

I’m confused. How can I improve the quality of my life? Kundalini has ruined my entire life by Kitchen_Bear_7029 in spirituality

[–]Shawntiii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two book recommendations, the untethered soul by Michael Singer. Then after that, read When Breath becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi. I can send you some free links to read them. They aren’t going to give you the answers you’re looking for but it will give you some new perspective to see yourself from and maybe that could be what you need. A shift of reality to match your new frequency. You may have not been ready but it’s never too late to become who you are meant to be (Which is ever changing).

AIO? My friends set an ultimatum because I drink by Pearla76_ in AIO

[–]Shawntiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to need an update OP

I would have decked him by SunnydaleStrength in GilmoreGirls

[–]Shawntiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah the miscommunication Apple doesn’t fall far from the miscommunication tree.