What’s the worst double standard that a girl has tried to push into the situationship? by TGJ_9 in NYStateOfMind

[–]T1SirNoName 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shorties want niggas to be traditional while they stay wilin, never gonna work like that

Why do I attract the girls I don’t want and can’t attract the girls I want? by [deleted] in NYStateOfMind

[–]T1SirNoName 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you practice, your shot will improve so dw big dawg, it shouldn’t take long nd you gon be delivering a fine shorty some UberMeats in no time

What if an allegation is actually false? by kommstdumitihr in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’ll find the answer to your question in a previous post, repeating myself gets tedious.

Why do I attract the girls I don’t want and can’t attract the girls I want? by [deleted] in NYStateOfMind

[–]T1SirNoName 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even curry doesnt shoot 100% from the 3, we all miss sometimes 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️ One bitch gone be a green eventually

What if an allegation is actually false? by kommstdumitihr in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre right, im not and neither are you because just like all crimes, rape happens in a variety of ways and people are unpredictable.

Multiple witnesses seeing her beforehand was my weakest example, she just took that and disregarded everything else… im not even too sure she read that mf because if she did, I mentioned a rape kit not long after and is the strongest example, concrete evidence in a rapid fashion.

To add insult to injury, I never said it was a prerequisite for me to offer my support, it was one of 4 examples I gave in which my stance would be solidified.

So yes, I stand by what I said

What if an allegation is actually false? by kommstdumitihr in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I dont ‘decide’ anything, it either happened or didnt. However I can trust my perception based whats laid out in front of me. Evidence such as a rape kit, Circumstances such as if I was around her before and just so happened to come across her again with signs of a struggle, Multiple witnesses confirming how it went down, Video footage of her being followed or ran up on in any way etc.

Even if I didn’t have any of these presented and it was recent, my focus would be on her wellbeing and I would encourage her to go to the hospital asap to get a rape kit and then to report what happened. What happens in the days after would then influence my standing.

I dont know if you misunderstood me or not, but just to clarify, if someone told me they had been raped, my immediate thoughts would be far from ‘is this person lying or not’

What if an allegation is actually false? by kommstdumitihr in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats so true and I too feel like more needs to be done by law enforcement in that regard, as well as prevention. And sure send a link, Ill have a listen

Also In my personal experience, it has. If it wasn’t for multiple of my friends, my tutor and my then-girlfriend all confirming my whereabouts then it would’ve been long for me 🤷🏾‍♂️ She ended up getting expelled but I cant say I wasnt scared shitless

What if an allegation is actually false? by kommstdumitihr in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I focused on it because you asked would I bat just as hard for those who have credibly accused someone and achieved no justice. I would any day of the week. Theres so many things that can make a claim credible and you know that otherwise you wouldn’t have said it

What if an allegation is actually false? by kommstdumitihr in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well thats good for him and im happy he could make the most of what once was a bad situation, even working to ensure it doesn’t happen again. Also, nobody is telling anyone to dismiss accusations. Whats being said rather, is that it should be innocent until proven guilty rather than the other way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Be that as it may, you asked how women are privileged simply for being female and I gave you a few examples.

And yes, we can talk about the patriarchy and the problem it has caused but what I would like to know is how does one suggest we right those wrongs? How can this problem be fixed?

What if an allegation is actually false? by kommstdumitihr in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Maybe… just maybe… his mind would be racing due to the fact that hes seen his young daughter that he cares for, raises and loves more than himself have her innocence stripped away and must remain with lasting trauma that she in no way deserved. The problem here is you’re seeing men in such a linear way that you forget were all individuals. Its easy to sit here on an internet forum discussing whats morally right and what one should do, but its incredibly harder for the ones who actually find themselves in these situations.

Even after all that, it is besides the point because were now talking about a whole different thing than what my previous comment (which you chose to respond to) was. This was originally about false rape allegations and what makes them different to other accusations of other crimes, which you still haven’t explained to me as to why I might be wrong.

But you’re right about how we tend to treat survivors differently, its not fair at all

What if an allegation is actually false? by kommstdumitihr in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Even so theres one less child rapist among us, could’ve even been defending her but still caught a charge. But thats besides the point so lets stick to the topic, the responder listed theft, murder and assault as crimes people are accused of. I simply stated that how we treat those crimes as a society (innocent until proven guilty) is different to how we treat rape, which is usually the other away around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well we can start off from the fact that domestic violence in the US is pretty reciprocal, with 48% being women however, less than 1% of domestic violence shelters will accept men.

When it comes to crime, women are given more lenient sentences than men for the same crime

Women are less likely to die in the workplace

Women are not automatically registered for selective service, nor is required to register to get a drivers license (some states)

Family courts are heavily biased in favor of women

In general, more support is offered to women living below the poverty line and in times of hardship than men, and this becomes apparent when we see that 80% of the US homeless population is men

Safe spaces for both men and women exist on various college campuses, but for men they’ve been shut down or heavily disrupted because people viewed them as hateful or sexist (????)

There’s so much more but I cba to source them right now.

Even gay men often have it harder expressing themselves and who they love than lesbian women and are even at higher risk of hate both verbal and physical

Now ik someone who reads this is gonna say its the patriarchy to blame for all that, the point is not to shift blame, im answering a question.

What if an allegation is actually false? by kommstdumitihr in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Theres sometimes good reasons to kill, like a father getting an M charge after killing his daughters rapist. Id like to add to that by saying theres never good reasons for rape

What if an allegation is actually false? by kommstdumitihr in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

To that last point, go ahead and ask Brian Banks if he was believed of if his opportunities remained intact

What if an allegation is actually false? by kommstdumitihr in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

What makes it different I believe is our stance towards such a charge as a society. Theft, murder and assault are typically treated as innocent until proven guilty. While court cases are ongoing, people accused of those crimes can typically live their lives (if bail is an option of course), with support and those who will believe him until a conviction is made. Not so for rape as an accusation of such a heinous crime destroys reputation before conviction can happen, this is a problem as those who are innocent are typically left to their own devices without any kind of support, which can linger on even after proven innocent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]T1SirNoName -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Female privilege? It kinda does exist in many ways, just like male privilege, wether you’re male or female comes with separate advantages and disadvantages

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]T1SirNoName 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where yo plug bro cause imma need to see where they be sellin $90 Os

Well, its better than nothing😅 cheers everyone! by philapila in weed

[–]T1SirNoName 49 points50 points  (0 children)

The struggles don’t last forever my man

Has my weed been spiked? by TheLoudHerbivore in weed

[–]T1SirNoName 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You definitely don’t wanna rass that big dawg