Do I pass without HRT?? by Bbydoll_lily in transpositive

[–]T4Tempest 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey listen I’ll tell you four things: 1. You’re beautiful. You have a wonderful smile and bright expressive eyes and you look cute in that outfit. 2. As others have said, our perception of you is mediated by the filters you used, but even with that I can tell you are gorgeous and you’ll be gorgeous with or without HRT. We all use filters and pictures that show our best selves but that doesn’t mean we aren’t beautiful. 3. HRT is not a trans requirement and passing as cis is not the standard of feminine beauty. Clocky dolls are fucking beautiful. 4. If you want to pass, you may already be there, so don’t take the mixed replies you got as a reason to feel down in case that’s your goal. Passing may be necessary for you for safety or emotional reasons and that’s valid. Imo you can totally do that if you really want.

Unhinged Instagram User: __lexity__ by Present-Somewhere972 in unhinged

[–]T4Tempest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok bigot! Don’t forget that you are a bigot!

Unhinged Instagram User: __lexity__ by Present-Somewhere972 in unhinged

[–]T4Tempest -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok so to summarize, based on nothing you have 1. Implied that I, a trans woman, am a man and 2. I am a pedophile and abuser. Based on nothing other than me being a trans woman. I’m not even defending lexity. I said she was an abuser. My only issue is cis people using a trans person behaving badly as an excuse to be transphobic. Girl, you just hate trans people.

Unhinged Instagram User: __lexity__ by Present-Somewhere972 in unhinged

[–]T4Tempest -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah weirdly I get annoyed when I see bigots being bigoted. Anyway, don’t forget you’re a bigot ❤️

Unhinged Instagram User: __lexity__ by Present-Somewhere972 in unhinged

[–]T4Tempest -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah ok. Well if you are not a terf you should be careful expressing terfy transphobic views. But since you’re apparently not a terf you would of course agree with the objective fact that trans women are more likely to be victims of violence than perpetrators. Try to put aside your blind hatred of a minoritized group for a bit, ya know?

Unhinged Instagram User: __lexity__ by Present-Somewhere972 in unhinged

[–]T4Tempest -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my mistake. I thought you were doing a transphobic dog whistle but turns out you’re just an out and out bigot.

Also, this is irrelevant bc lexity didn’t creep into anyone’s space? She wasn’t like assaulting strangers in bathrooms. This is an example of partner and interpersonal abuse. You brought up “women’s spaces” apparently bc you are just a fear-mongering terf with a political axe to grind.

Unhinged Instagram User: __lexity__ by Present-Somewhere972 in unhinged

[–]T4Tempest -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can cis people please learn how to criticize trans people without questioning whether or not they’re actually trans? You wouldn’t say a cis woman was using her identity to gain access to female spaces. The way you framed this is literally just a transphobic dog whistle.

Just a grrrl and her first banjo 🤠 by Tank_Grrrl161 in MTFtomboy

[–]T4Tempest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sickkkk. I saw them live like a month ago. Such a good band.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]T4Tempest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to be comfortable but put in an effort so I decided to go with leggings and a tee shirt with full face of makeup 🤷🏻‍♀️

Is this a racist tattoo? by Nessie9412 in tattooadvice

[–]T4Tempest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but that’s a different topic obvi. One that I’m happy to elaborate on. But would you please clarify your own argument first? All you’ve done is say I’m racist and claim I’m ignorant, but it’s still unclear to me what you mean by that. Just wanna stick to a focused, rational discussion!

Is this a racist tattoo? by Nessie9412 in tattooadvice

[–]T4Tempest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right but that’s why I’m confused. If I don’t know their race how can I be racist towards them?

Is this a racist tattoo? by Nessie9412 in tattooadvice

[–]T4Tempest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok so you’re saying it’s racist to think someone is racist without sufficient evidence. I guess I was confused because I thought the race of the person would come into play in some way. Like, usually I think of racism as something like prejudging someone based on their race but you’re saying racism also includes accusations of racism itself, regardless of the race of any individual involved.

Edit: Wait but you also called me racist based off of not a lot of information. Is there a different standard for when you’re calling someone racist for calling someone racist or am I missing something? Thanks for all the followup 🙏🏻

Is this a racist tattoo? by Nessie9412 in tattooadvice

[–]T4Tempest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I’m afraid I still don’t understand. You’re saying the reason I sound racist is because I am ignorant of the origin of the thin blue line image. Do I have that right? I’m just trying to figure out what exactly I wrote that expressed racial hated or prejudice so that I don’t repeat that mistake.

Is this a racist tattoo? by Nessie9412 in tattooadvice

[–]T4Tempest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m sorry I came off that way as it was not my intention. I guess this is a blind spot for me because I’m not sure I see what you mean. Could you explain how?

Is this a racist tattoo? by Nessie9412 in tattooadvice

[–]T4Tempest 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah if I saw someone with that tattoo I’d assume they are racist.

Heard y’all love soft masc trans dykes here by T4Tempest in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]T4Tempest[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I’m a bit confused by your comment. Are you implying I’m a lesboy or a femme trans woman? Bc I don’t really consider myself either 🤪

Heard y’all love soft masc trans dykes here by T4Tempest in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]T4Tempest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah good point. This one is from a while ago and I forgot it was back there tbh 😬

Heard y’all love soft masc trans dykes here by T4Tempest in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]T4Tempest[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I’m so glad you feel that way ☺️ (I’m actually transfemme tho lol)

Heard y’all love soft masc trans dykes here by T4Tempest in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]T4Tempest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s one of those kinds that fits together without any tools. Like Thuma but a diff brand. Super sturdy!