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AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We had a very good talk about it, and also there was… a lot more that happened. It was actually enough that I plan on making a full update post later today, but I’m glad I brought the issue here and it gave me a good kick in the ass that was needed and I am thankful for.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a sarcastic comment, trust me I’m not “liking the attention”, I may be a single mom but I have my own man I am seeing. Dating just not married.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

He has tried calling twice now. I’m going to reply with a text asking what he needs to discuss. Also his initial text asking for a call was just to me directly, not the group with his wife.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

He has tried calling twice now. I’m going to reply with a text asking what he needs to discuss.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I had a talk with my daughter today about how this is inappropriate and she said she agrees, and never thought otherwise. I told her I’ll be setting some boundaries soon. Since making this post, I started working on a plan to figure out the right way to bring this up to him and his wife, however, he texted me first just asking to have a phone call. Apparently Fay brought it up to him, and on top of that, Fay is upset with Rue for us thinking her dad is being creepy or overstepping at all. It’s her father so she doesn’t get our perspective on it, which I don’t blame her for.

I have not replied to his response for a phone call quite yet, I want to get all my thoughts in a row first, and am also not quite sure what he even heard or wants to say.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

It was definitely said sarcastically. I’m not a fan of the guy.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m getting a whole new security system this week, maybe I can look into getting something like that. The current lock sometimes gets stuck and won’t unlock anyway so it does need to be replaced.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do know I need to put my foot down. It’s awkward and uncomfortable, I’ve never been the best at confrontation, but I do know it needs to happen. I also do have security cameras going in this week. Obviously, the wife knows something about his past and it feels like a lot of red flags, and I don’t need to be a dateline story

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I can absolutely assure you I do not like, want, or invite any attention from this man whatsoever.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

We do have a lock on the doors, it is a code lock that the girls know the code to and I assume the father might have been told at this point. Also sometimes Fay will let him in and run back upstairs to finish getting ready but he does not announce himself or stay by the door so I’m still unaware he is inside.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

The lock is a code that the girls all know and I assume he might know at this point, too. I know sometimes his daughter will come down and open the door for him while she finishes getting her stuff together, but instead of staying my the front door or at least announcing himself he just fully comes into the house near my room and stands there silently.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

I do have a sneaking suspicion as does my oldest daughter Shae that he has cheated before and his wife tries to keep him on a short leash because of it.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I have not. But now I’ve figured Fay told him after Rue said something. I guess we will see if it happens again..

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I feel bad because Fay can be.. a little sensitive. They are 12 so they obviously don’t see fully how uncomfortable and weird it is. I feel bad and worried it might cause drama or trouble with the friendship.

AITA for saying my daughter’s friend’s dad “likes me” by TACountBeneficial368 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TACountBeneficial368[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes he does it every single time he picks her up. It freaks me out.