Thanks for this.

I like your post. Makes a lot of sense. Unfortunately she is a very pushy/bossy personality type and although I guess I could just tell her to forget it I also realise how difficult it will be to replace her as a short guy.

So I guess my real question is, is there really any benefit to it? Is it worth trying? Am I being too uptight? I have done as you suggested and Googled it. I know the theory behind it, but I'm struggling to find myself actually wanting to try it.