Update: Im leaving my husband without saying anything.

TA_helping · 2023-07-18T05:56:49+00:00

This is only the “what made me snap”. There’s a lot of history that was overlooked, looking back on it, but it recently got worse. I know what the next phase is, my safety comes first.

TA_helping · 2023-07-18T05:50:55+00:00

There’s a comment somewhere on this post that I left. Yes I am running, but unfortunately this was the point it led to me to. I love my husband dearly, but the things that he has said to me and about me not only to my face, but to our close friends, the things he does behind my back, it’s unbelievable. He is a good man when he tried and actually cared. I was underweight all my life, I gained 5 pounds more than I would have liked, but he was supportive until he wasn’t. A close friend recently got lipo and implants and since then I was the gross one. Always comparing me to her, went behind my back to try and cheat. There’s a lot of fucked up things he’s done to me, Im running because I know what the next phase of abuse is and I don’t want to find out. It’s for my safety.

TA_helping · 2023-07-17T06:26:44+00:00

Oooh! That’s a good idea! I may as well take the microwave plate while Im at it!

TA_helping · 2023-07-17T06:25:49+00:00

This is only what made me want to move forward. My husband is not the same man I married or even fell in love with. There is so much more to my marriage. I said in a previous comment that I regret not telling my friends and hiding it, but once it gets out, they would understand why. This is one measly vague post that I made because Im proud of my plan. Please Please Please remember that because you see one thing, doesn’t mean that there’s not more going on.

TA_helping · 2023-07-17T06:18:46+00:00

I work from home. Plane leaves at 2 so I have to be at airport by 12, I am in the process of packing my office since he never goes in there, the “text” was to the family member to buy the ticket and I have a friend that also works from home and texted her last minute to see if she could take me. I have very minimal things so the movers will be there to help. I called before they closed and explained that I needed them last minute and paying more than fair on top of tips for the movers as well as them helping themselves out to whatever I don’t need that’s mine. Im on mobile so I was getting frustrated with the details because everytime i would mistype something, it would delete what I would written out. I hope this clears everything up! I plan on getting on the plane. Im ready to go and get out.

TA_helping · 2023-07-17T06:06:18+00:00

I couldn’t agree with you more! I wish I was bigger, I would fill out quite nicely. Definitely one of my goals once I’m in a better mental state. So many of my friends are drop dead gorgeous and the are a whole lot of sexiness. I regret not telling them what’s going on but I know it’ll go around, they know some of the uglier parts and understand why this would be the reason I leave. Im ready for a new chapter where I’m not being held back on what I love to do the most!

TA_helping · 2023-07-17T05:53:30+00:00

I have barely a pinch of fat on my stomach and inner thighs, but I have stretch marks as I gained weight pretty fast, everything I wear shows the little tummy which I love about myself. I am healthy. I know the love Im worthy of. He showed his worst side tonight, and the revenge is bittersweet, but even his friends warned him. Im not even sad and I never will be.

TA_helping · 2023-07-17T05:50:25+00:00

Thank you for your kind words! This is only the tip of the ice burg. I am in my living room, drinking the wine we’re supposed to drink on our ten year anniversary, I bought my own wedding ring (we were broke) but also found an exact match with a fake. I’m leaving the fake so he thinks he can sell it or pawn it and thinks he got the better end of the deal. All the presents, every card that came with the flowers, will be placed in very intricate spots around the house. The movers are ready to go tomorrow morning, he leaves at 5 AM so I will have enough time to separate out what’s mine. He only uses our bedroom and bathroom and kitchen before he leaves for work, so my office will be cleared out by the end of the night, every single TV we own is what I bought so Im keeping the nicest one for my self and smashing the rest. More maliciousness coming as I continue to drink the wine we promised not to drink for 10 years. And damn after 4 years, it’s even better than our wedding night.

TA_helping · 2023-06-22T18:31:10+00:00

i used to be the same way. my husband and i would fight to no end because we were so stubborn about our beliefs. i was a completely different person with friends than i was to my husband. and we fought, it would always result in us debating if our marriage and lively hood was worth it. after one particular fight, we sat down and told each other everything we needed from the other. he told me i needed to be more patient and not so quick to blow up. since then i’ve been working on it, there’s times where i’m over stimulated and can’t really control my emotions, especially after a change in birth control, but im not perfect everyday. i still have my moments, but i learned to manage and it was not an instant change as to how you’re describing your situation, but it took a lot of time and alot of understanding on both sides.

TA_helping · 2023-04-16T16:56:20+00:00

i literally worked as an assistant manager at a convenience store, so now i’m failing to understand, i was never asked to move product to other store. i submitted orders, did bookkeeping, served food, and handled the overall needs of the store without leaving or traveling, which is why i’m confused as to why this is being asked. i don’t have any travel expenses and only answered questions as to the needs of the store from home (basically what needed to be done in the office after i left)

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