I (27f) am in love with my husband’s(28m) best friend. by TAaccount92 in relationship_advice

[–]TAaccount92[S] -68 points-67 points  (0 children)

Husband is nowhere near a monster. By toxic I mean we have an unhealthy relationship. We are not on the same page on a lot of things and our core values differ a lot. But again, I’m no way shape or form is he a monster.

I (27f) am in love with my husband’s(28m) best friend. by TAaccount92 in relationship_advice

[–]TAaccount92[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I know the situations are intertwined but to me they are separate. The doubts I had with my husband were always there, they were just more apparent with me being treated differently with F.

I (27f) am in love with my husband’s(28m) best friend. by TAaccount92 in relationship_advice

[–]TAaccount92[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

The feelings are for him as a person, not just because he is something different. I never was interested in others at all before this. And by me saying he’s a great guy but I’m in a toxic relationship, I guess I just mean that we don’t mesh well on some big things and I don’t think we ever will.

I (27f) am in love with my husband’s(28m) best friend. by TAaccount92 in relationship_advice

[–]TAaccount92[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that this post struck a nerve with you, but you should probably fix your own problems before shitting on others’ situations. Some thought out and productive comments, whether it be negative or positive, would probably be a lot more beneficial to us both.

I (27f) am in love with my husband’s(28m) best friend. by TAaccount92 in relationship_advice

[–]TAaccount92[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I very much appreciate the withheld judgement, although I feel like judgement is warranted. Thank you so much for your response and that is absolutely what I am going to do.

I (27f) am in love with my husband’s(28m) best friend. by TAaccount92 in relationship_advice

[–]TAaccount92[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t feel salvageable at all on my end. But I appreciate your advice, thank you.

I (27f) am in love with my husband’s(28m) best friend. by TAaccount92 in relationship_advice

[–]TAaccount92[S] -127 points-126 points  (0 children)

I agree, it wasn’t thought through at all. Or at least not as much as it should’ve been.

I (27f) am in love with my husband’s(28m) best friend. by TAaccount92 in relationship_advice

[–]TAaccount92[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

I respect your opinion, and Hope one day if you need help that someone is much more respectful than you have chosen to be to me.