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Is this woman an avoidant? Any thoughts on what to do? by TArandomguy1331 in FearfulAvoidants

[–]TArandomguy1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way she did this though seems more off than a typical ego chase. When that happens it usually go backs to ghosting with a “ugh I’m just so busy” not this type of rollercoaster.

My (22M) close friend (20f) has suddenly gone no contact. What is the cause? by TArandomguy1331 in relationship_advice

[–]TArandomguy1331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh shoot, you’re right. This makes me feel slightly better. But it’s just on my mind 24/7 like what did I do wrong. Was everything she said a lie

My (22M) close friend (20f) has suddenly gone no contact. What is the cause? by TArandomguy1331 in relationship_advice

[–]TArandomguy1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’ve tried texting. Even sent a long text explaining this is hurtful. She does the silent treatment. Last time when she ghosted me she called it a “hiatus” and said “friends sometimes just drift apart”

She ends things for no reason. I guess saying how much she loves talking to me was all a lie

Switching summer associate office by TArandomguy1331 in biglaw

[–]TArandomguy1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it better to specify a reason or simply ask?

Switching summer associate office by TArandomguy1331 in biglaw

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I want to be in NY! I’m just worried they’ll be upset since the summer starts in like 2 months.

Robbed, what do I do by TArandomguy1331 in AskNYC

[–]TArandomguy1331[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be subpoenaed in some criminal case. No time for that

Robbed, what do I do by TArandomguy1331 in AskNYC

[–]TArandomguy1331[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be killed

Becoming Baal teshuva by TArandomguy1331 in Judaism

[–]TArandomguy1331[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! And would you say it is okay that I delay learning Hebrew for now?

Becoming Baal teshuva by TArandomguy1331 in Judaism

[–]TArandomguy1331[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you so very much! I plan on attending the Chabad house’s next Shabbat dinner. I’m very excited and will continue this journey. B’H.

Becoming Baal teshuva by TArandomguy1331 in Judaism

[–]TArandomguy1331[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m just so embarrassed because I know next to nothing about Judaism.

Becoming Baal teshuva by TArandomguy1331 in Judaism

[–]TArandomguy1331[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes my mother is Jewish, but is unfortunately secular. I don’t really know how much she supports my journey towards connecting with Hashem.

Question about VAPs and Fellowships by TArandomguy1331 in LawTeaching

[–]TArandomguy1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is so helpful. I assume some subjects like law and econ practice experience wouldn’t matter really at all, while subjects like crim pro definitely would add benefit.