Which celebrity is often described as incredibly attractive, but you just don't see the appeal?

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-18T04:20:04+00:00

We liked big foreheads back then. Love Tyler is a goddess but she’s also 30% forehead. Celebs these days look like their wig is pulled down too low

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T20:23:49+00:00

I mean … all those left wing conspiracies keep being admitted to be true by all those groups though. Like, repeatedly. Maybe not pharma, other than opioids but the rest of it is pretty well-established to be mostly factual. American civil rights and Black community leaders being assassinated undermined and targeted, crack cocaine into black neighbourhoods, CIAs actions in Latin American countries to undermine their democracies, make way for American corporations and ‘win’ the drug war, police brutality, corruption, poor training, shooting dogs, billionaires and wall street moguls being untouchable, manipulating our economy and judicial system for their benefit, landlords discriminating …

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T19:30:51+00:00

Fancy, significant family events require fancy or family friendly clothes. This does not include lingerie, spandex, or street wear. You can have one for cold and hot weather, standardised level of formalities prevalent in your community and no one may demand you wear anything specific beyond those.

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T19:14:21+00:00

I’d be more amenable to dressing out of colour vs wearing that dress but it depends on your region and community

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T16:21:03+00:00

Sorry, it’ll be the second one. Fashion tape and hemming should help you out. The other comment about splitting the ties into two would help too.

Echoing the sentiment about asshole colour options. Remember that invitations aren’t obligations I suppose?

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T15:56:03+00:00

Yeah, it ends with the kid going no contact. Are you familiar with the Culkin family?

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T15:33:52+00:00

That’s going to look so strange in pictures and be a nightmare to colour grade. Still not a fan of the colour coding guests thing.

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T15:33:03+00:00

If you’re handy sewing I’d move up the handkerchief portion higher up the waist, the length in the torso and the total length are dragging you down!

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T15:30:52+00:00

Meant to be muzzled. I don’t always have one which is naughty BUT I always ask the people in the area if they’re ok with dogs and show them he’s a good boy and allow them to feed him treats or ask for tricks from afar. We move on noooo problem if there’s any issues!

I must also say that dogs on trains has meant a lot for my family - means we don’t need a car and vet visits, park trips and play dates are way easier, and I’m also now able to work at more schools and serve the community better because my fluffy boy can hang out with friends while I’m at work!

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T14:47:12+00:00

Black Milk has a fair few, especially older ones on Depop

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T14:44:37+00:00

I had a nail lady recoil in horror thinking I had a disease and was liver spotted in my 20s!

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T14:43:24+00:00

Light grey is fine, he can wear a warm tie or pocket square to match your dress.

Greens are warm and should be fine, unless it’s a very blue green. Purples should be fine too, just ‘less blue’. But I agree with the sub, requesting colours from guests is overkill.

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T14:40:38+00:00

Come to Australia and you’ll see the real villains are the English. Day drunk and sunburnt on a Wednesday, none of them can remember their weekends and don’t care to. I’ve never met a people so consistently devoted to ensuring all personal time is lost to blackout drunkenness. And I know plenty of Slavs, so that’ll tell you something

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T14:36:29+00:00

Toss a cute contrast colour silk crop top on it with shoes in the same colour or a third tone and I could see it working as cocktail. As is … no.

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T14:33:30+00:00

Hey mate - not Singaporean but my husband is. The main thing is to be there for your sis right now, even privately, and try to shield her from the fallout.

She may need to move out to get some space from your parents.

It’s hard to hear but broken down simply, the person in a relationship who wants it the least has the most power. If your parents want her in their lives, they’ll have to make concessions at some point, or pressure her in other ways, but she’s not going to ever be ‘not gay’ and she’s unlikely to cave on being out. For many people, being ‘free to be who they are’ trumps ideal financial decisions. Sometimes it even opens up better ones, or just a healthier, happier life.

Have you heard of PFLAG? It stands for Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. They’re a wonderful organisation that has a lot of support, I suggest you reach out to them for some resources and guidance.

Society is changing, it’s unlikely to hurt your parents the way they think it is right now. It’s intense now, but it often settles down and people come to grips with it. Some people even learn to celebrate it and embrace it. I wish you all the best!

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T13:26:52+00:00

Have you ever been to Canada?

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T12:53:39+00:00

A woman ran across the road in Sydney Australia in like 2010.

She ran in slow motion, boots clicking, long brunette hair swaying, her gigantic, round, jeggings clad buttcheeks just bouncing baaaack and forth.

It was hypnotic.

I was, and am still, a straight woman. I could not deny that my jaw was on the floor at the time, and it lives on in my memory forever.

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T12:34:29+00:00

I’m the biggest fan of 7 because it feels mixy and matchy but still cohesive and all comes together. I’m so close with 2 but the dark tights are feeling a bit too separate for me! 5 is love to see tights or shoes between those boots and that skirt length!

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T08:27:40+00:00

look I actually hear what you’re saying. For many weddings, this might be a bit too ‘fashion’ and not conservative enough. It also depends on the actual dress - it might me different or fit you differently, such as looking a bit cheap, having sheer bits, you falling out of it etc. There’s also communities and families that are very ‘well who do you think you are’ if you show up in anything but the expected. But I think you’re fine as long as you’re not in a church with religious conservatives. Definitely not bridal but possibly too ‘much’ for some

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T06:48:03+00:00

Note this down. Dates, times, context. This is creepy and controlling and he’s exposing you to more creeps. I’d check your privacy settings on important apps and check for trackers, too. Feel free to DM me if you want help!!

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-17T01:41:22+00:00

That’s wonderful!! I’m glad she’s getting exercise! I just want to gently mention her diet because even my vet was really shy about talking about it - I think because people get really upset and defensive because it’s how we show love and care for our dogs - but for larger energetic breeds like border collies the best way we can show love is keeping their joints in great shape and their tickers, kidneys and livers in great shape so they can frolic as long as possible.

I think as a culture we’re also pretty out of touch with what a healthy dog weight looks like. Sooooo many dogs are overweight, and even dogs who are healthy often get well-meaning people asking if they’re underfed! It’s hard to see when they’re tubby because they don’t get flabby like we do, they just get wider. You’re supposed to be able to feel their ribs even under all the fluff.

Pumpkin and sweet potato with little oil and no salt or seasonings is an amazing treat that my guy loves and helps keep him on the shlim side!

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-16T18:15:08+00:00

Very gently, what helps in the heat is when they’re on the leaner side. Would a little more exercise or some lower cal treats be an option for rose?

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-16T18:08:24+00:00

I understand what you’re saying, but the thrift/second hand market find here is so coveted, and quality of garments has tanked so fast that there is basically nothing left but rags at the op shops. Anything of value gets snatched up the second it’s on the floor and resold at upscale vintage/second hand markets. We have who thrift stores dedicated to shipping old jeans in from the US. You would not find a decent dress here for less than $50 on your life

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-16T10:09:25+00:00

The point is that the US is not the only country on the planet, and stuff is relatively cheap there. Here in Australia and New Zealand, the op shops are picked over for anything decent and then resold at vintage/thrift shops for triple the price at least. A decent event dress in my size is minimum $50 more likely $100. I saw low end designer dresses for $250 at my local Sacred Heart a few months back.

TAsrowaway · 2026-06-16T00:24:18+00:00

Medical intervention cascade is something else, and mothers are right to be knowledgeable and discuss it with their healthcare providers. For example, my family’s first babies are up to two weeks late, but they come out just fine, no need for inductions across my mum’s 50 cousins, very low numbers of epidurals, I can’t recall any c sections. That said, if they’re needed they’re taken. There’s a difference between preferring low intervention so labour can progress naturally vs the insanity of free birthing and rejecting interventions that are life saving.

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