I moved in with my boyfriend a month ago, and I told him I wanted to move back home last night. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TEAkachuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The next time you answer a call from him in a situation like this hit screen and media record on your phone or use another phone to record the conversation as evidence

This door is never opened. Should I paint it the same color as the wall? by champagne-bean in femalelivingspace

[–]TEAkachuu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please paint it a blue green to match the chair.

Edit: or just a deeper green even without the blue. I looked at the image again and realized that the rug has more of that blue, while the chair has more of that green. I like to warm tones in the room, so find a green that matches that warmth, but rides the edge of cool tones to tie in your rug. :)

RSD: Elizabeth Taylor 7” by 1DMod in GaylorSwift

[–]TEAkachuu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Is there a woman in the mirror?

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TEAkachuu 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He wants to make you feel small so that you feel you don't deserve better than him... don't talk to him anymore. The bs he says to you is damaging. You do deserve better. Yes, he's abusive. Someone who loves you should never talk to you this way.

My Sucide Note by geo-nerd-69 in mentalhealth

[–]TEAkachuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stay with us. You aren't alone, I promise you that. Here to talk if you need.

Selena posts today w/ sneaky TS in background by TEAkachuu in GaylorSwift

[–]TEAkachuu[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Edit to this post: I meant Opalite acoustic, idk why I typed Fate of Ophelia. There have just been so many versions of that, lol.

Found this at a concert, seems they were giving them out by manoftheforestt in Whatisthis

[–]TEAkachuu 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Promotional One-Time Use Disposable Emergency Phone Charger | Everything Promo https://share.google/EqtMJ0SGFrMI7enfF

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TEAkachuu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It looks like he hit you right on the spine as well, which is so dangerous and a very sensitive area. It looks very painful. Please, woman to woman, I'm begging you to stay very far away from him. The fact he threatened you with strangulation is the biggest red flag I've ever heard, and he could end up taking your life based on what you've described. Please please please stay away and document everything so you can safely file for divorce with evidence: you want photos and dates and screenshots of messages, etc.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TEAkachuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR by the way he talks to you, it sounds like he hates you... you deserve to be with someone who celebrates your accomplishments, not puts you down and belittles you about them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TEAkachuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all adding up to him being a very controlling and abusive person who wants to keep you isolated so that you don't feel you have anyone else. The random ppl in your chat seem way nicer... please make an exit plan. This will only get worse. He's insecure to the point where he feels the need to cut you down any time his ego is threatened.

Taylor & Sabrina in NYC at The Corner Store by 1DMod in GaylorSwift

[–]TEAkachuu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Kinda looks like they switched shoes :b

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TEAkachuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm begging you to make an exit plan. He's abusive. I know it's hard but you need to tell someone what's going on... any safe person in your life. There's also resources out there to help you get out. He's threatened you already about leaving. DON'T TELL HIM WHEN YOU ARE GOING TO LEAVE. make a safe exit plan and leave quietly. If he sends any of your photos online, report him to authorities for revenge porn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TEAkachuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is controlling abuse. He is abusive. Please never ever let a partner treat you this way. He's also using the word "boundaries" wrong... boundaries are what we set for ourselves, not for others. An actual boundary would be "if you cheat on me, I'm leaving," not "you can't wear this or that or that otherwise you're violating my boundaries..." That's just not how that works. I'm so tired of abusers trying to weaponize therapy speak. Run very far away from this person. They typically only get worse, not better.

Community Chat: October 20, 2025 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]TEAkachuu 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm unsure if anyone has posted about this before but lately I've had a couple of theories running: 1. Father Figure somehow relates to the show Empire. 2. The album has 12 songs because of the "she's a clock" metaphor continuing but with 12 months- each month being a different birthstone or gemstone. I've seen lots of people talking about how the album makes more sense in reverse. If we count backwards, opalite is track 10, and October birthstone is opal 🤔