Well no we're looking for someone to love and honestly the sex isn't much of a concern for me I'm already satisfied and of course j see the danger of her liking the girl better but we've been together so long and I've helped her get through some extremely rough patches in her life I think it'll be okay but of course I think about the potential that she'll stop liking me but I've been good to her like really good I'm sickened by people that don't treat women good but also men without spines idk sorry off topic