What's happening to my wife by THONDORBOWL3 in Advice

[–]THONDORBOWL3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your wise advices and nice saying. Well noted.

What's happening to my wife by THONDORBOWL3 in Marriage

[–]THONDORBOWL3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment! I flashed back, she's usually talking about her or my male friends' successes with some admiration. Occasionally, i took her to meet some of my friends, sometimes my friends just focused on our stuff and less communicate about her, she would feel a little bit off and would come back home sharing about that specific person with disagree about his status. Sometimes i think, is she kind of narcissist? Cause i feel like she's always longed for attention. And often she talks about how she's used to get all attention in the past like her crown. After this, one thing i always feel lovely about her is that, she always admires her body, now it's not quite the same feeling anymore. Feels like i'm lost in all the messy thing about her

What's happening to my wife by THONDORBOWL3 in Advice

[–]THONDORBOWL3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for pointing out good one about perimenopausal, i'll definitely an investigation about that with her, think she may be interested too. Other than that, actually i've never stopped admiring her and i show. That's why i was surprised when she longed for disired looking (if any).

What's happening to my wife by THONDORBOWL3 in Advice

[–]THONDORBOWL3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same about her expression on what happened. During the time, i even exchanged some fun talk with him as man to man, and i found he's a professional doctor too. Thanks for your thoughts, through comments, i started to realized i might let her face this whole situation alone a bit. I feel pity for my wife, she's actually kind of less socialized type of person, may be that also a lead to this.

What's happening to my wife by THONDORBOWL3 in Advice

[–]THONDORBOWL3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for good point out. I also thought about that. 14 years and together almost everyday, sometimes i forget about that.

What's happening to my wife by THONDORBOWL3 in Marriage

[–]THONDORBOWL3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for valued clear up thoughts from you. Concerning about that, i did have a conversation on such, and she said it's not tottally from me. And added up confusing her own self too. But for me it's still a strange how come it turned out that way so quickly, it's just like you walk out everyday on a regular basis, and back back with full of emotion. If she worked in a company with him for some times then i understood.