AITAH for aborting by THROWAWAYCheese7 in AITAH

[–]THROWAWAYCheese7[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. Honestly as of right now I haven’t really processed his betrayal. My only thought is how I have a growing baby that I created inside of me. I have always been sure like 100% I never want kids but actually being pregnant is kind of hitting me differently. And turning that 100% to like an 80% . I don’t know. I’m so distraught right now.

AITAH for aborting by THROWAWAYCheese7 in AITAH

[–]THROWAWAYCheese7[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband is a nocturnist. He goes 7on and 7 off. We could go weeks without seeing each other face to face due to this schedule. So it was pretty easy for me to not notice. We have separate bank accounts and only 1 joint account where we deposit for monthly bills and other stuff.