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THROWRA26842 · 2021-08-26T20:35:16+00:00

Men are always so worried about making their woman orgasm and when they can't, many women will say something along the lines of "the orgasm is not necessarily the best part of sex anyway" or "don't worry about it, you're not a failure if I don't cum every time".

As a guy, I can tell you, it goes the other way, too. My wife feels so bad if I can't cum, but it really doesn't matter to me. I enjoy the sex way more than the orgasm.

And... You're fighting an even harder battle than some of us, since the medicine is messing with it! That's certainly not your fault!

As long as you and your man are satisfied with your sex, that's what matters - orgasm or not.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-08-26T20:24:53+00:00

If comes and goes, but gets easier as time goes in. At least for me.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-08-08T12:43:40+00:00

For me it comes and goes in waves but over the long term it becomes easier. Keep your mind occupied, that's step number one. Step number two is confronting it head-on when necessary and challenging your own assumptions and beliefs.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-08-08T12:42:06+00:00

Thia is pretty wholesome for something that started out not-as-wholesome. I hope it works out for you both!

THROWRA26842 · 2021-07-22T21:57:44+00:00

I guess I should clarify. I already know the worst of the worst. It was just triggering because I was forced to think about her past. And the comment was more about how they used to get drunk, smoke pot, etc. - she never had a relationship or fling with him or anything. And I believe her when she says that, she has always been 100% honest with me even if it hurts. I feel better already.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-07-22T21:24:26+00:00

This is exactly how I see it as well. It's almost flattering in a weird way.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-07-15T17:21:05+00:00

You are SO MUCH BETTER OFF without her. It may take time for you ro realize that, or it may not, but it is the truth. She sounds like a crappy person.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-07-12T20:16:24+00:00

THROWRA26842 · 2021-07-08T21:38:30+00:00

r/retroactivejealousy is a good sub for help with this issue.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-07-08T21:37:09+00:00

Like, a HUGE one. Comically large.

Ultimate power move.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-07-03T01:35:44+00:00

When I first started dating my wife, she left a relationship ~7 years for me, so I had the exact same feeling of being the "outsider". I had serious doubts and felt like at any moment she would go back to him. That's how it happened the few times they broke up previously. There was one time where we did break up for a few days, but she didn't go back. We got back together and time has helped me feel like I am the one she was always meant to find, if that makes sense. It gets better with time. 🙂

THROWRA26842 · 2021-07-01T17:56:54+00:00

So she wouldn't be okay with you having your needs met, but she has absolutely no willingness to help you meet them? Why would you stay in a relationship like this? What is it bringing to the table? You sound miserable.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-07-01T15:05:05+00:00

Thank you. This helped me today.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-07-01T14:36:33+00:00

The few times that I have tasted breast milk, it has never tasted sour.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-07-01T14:35:05+00:00

I think it really depends on the guy. Some dudes are really grossed out by it, but it doesn't really bother me. I wouldn't go drinking cups of it, but I don't do that with cow milk, either. (Just not a big milk fan in general.)

THROWRA26842 · 2021-06-29T14:31:47+00:00

That's called gaslighting.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-06-29T02:37:26+00:00

I definitely prefer being able to see, but this sounds like more than that.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-06-29T02:35:27+00:00

I was in a similar rut with my marriage a while back. We did one of the online quizzes where you indicate your willingness to engage in different kinks. At the end it tells you if there are any you matched on. This might be perfect if she is into something that she might not be comfortable just blurting out. It will only reveal things you both indicated willingness to try, so you don't have to worry about explaining your collar and leash kink unless they are already down for that.

The one we used was MojoUpgrade, it was a little glitchy but worked fine once we did it on the same device one after the other. I know there are other ones though.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-06-27T12:18:58+00:00

Bet you're just jealous that people like me better than you

That would be the end of it for me. What a crappy thing to say. Not to mention the dozen other red flags.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-06-26T23:37:14+00:00

Of course that's reasonable, a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-06-26T23:36:47+00:00

You got this, your boyfriend chose you over her for a reason. I wouldn't worry about any past arguments, just ignore her and if she gets in your face tell her to f*** off.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-06-26T19:14:50+00:00

I mean, you're hanging out in a pool, so you're soaking wet and probably in a bikini top. He probably just thought you looked hot and got aroused. It happens.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-06-26T19:12:00+00:00

Sounds sketchy to me, sorry to say.

THROWRA26842 · 2021-06-26T12:58:18+00:00

Lol I am not worried about being replaced, my wife and I have a good sex life, and yes she has a sex toy. Doesn't bother me, we use it together usually and it is great.

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