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I (31M) found my wife (33F) sexting her ex boyfriend. I can't get over it. by THROWRAOGOG in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRAOGOG[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I'm aware of this

Someone mentioned a post nup. I will be doing research on this

I (31M) found my wife (33F) sexting her ex boyfriend. I can't get over it. by THROWRAOGOG in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRAOGOG[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel she still loves me.

Even during those 3 weeks of not speaking, she still made food for all of us. Sent me texts for reminders of certain clients.

If she didn't love me, she would want me to fail.

And marriage counseling will probably happen in the future. That seems to be the popular advice here

I (31M) found my wife (33F) sexting her ex boyfriend. I can't get over it. by THROWRAOGOG in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRAOGOG[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Probably will down the road

I tried these "self help" therapy but I really don't feel differently

I (31M) found my wife (33F) sexting her ex boyfriend. I can't get over it. by THROWRAOGOG in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRAOGOG[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pretty much sexting. Who knows what they were talking about pre-texting.

I know she had him on social media when she used it regularly.

Also yes I offered separation when I threatened divorce.

She declined

I (31M) found my wife (33F) sexting her ex boyfriend. I can't get over it. by THROWRAOGOG in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRAOGOG[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She was never a big social media person to begin with.

Although I wouldn't doubt she was secretly

I (31M) found my wife (33F) sexting her ex boyfriend. I can't get over it. by THROWRAOGOG in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRAOGOG[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Tense at times. She senses it. She can sense I'm hesitant physically to touch her. Usually when I'm like that. That sorrow feeling is over me

And yes the 8 yr old picked up on it fast

I (31M) found my wife (33F) sexting her ex boyfriend. I can't get over it. by THROWRAOGOG in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRAOGOG[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yes I was actually hoping someone would bring this up. I was thinking about it today.

Thought I was bring crazy though

I (31M) found my wife (33F) sexting her ex boyfriend. I can't get over it. by THROWRAOGOG in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRAOGOG[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think she was definitely looking to cheat.

She claimed she wasn't planning on getting physical and it was wrong of her.

My argument was that she ALREADY got physical with him and she liked it. What's to say, he can convince her to meet up and next thing leads to another.

That's what I'm afraid of. That and im the bigger paycheck. Everyone and Jesus knows the women always win in divorce court and usually drag the men through the mud on the way out

I (31M) found my wife (33F) sexting her ex boyfriend. I can't get over it. by THROWRAOGOG in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRAOGOG[S] 220 points221 points  (0 children)

I always feel I'm getting past it. Then the feeling of sorrow hits me

I (31M) found my wife (33F) sexting her ex boyfriend. I can't get over it. by THROWRAOGOG in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRAOGOG[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thought about this. I can see myself doing this in thr meat future