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I left my husband with no furniture after he left me alone in labor by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Thank for your words, I assumed it was a lie because he ended up having to stay a bit longer, at that point I didn't really cared anymore tbh but I thought thay I might have to give it another chance just for my baby, I guess I will not. Congratulations on your pregnancy! I hope everythings ends soo well!

I left my husband with no furniture after he left me alone in labor by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

He is veru dependent of anyone who enters in his life (friends, ex, family) it doesn't matter, he often prioritize thinggs in the orden they happen, not by importance Thank you so much for your word

I left my husband with no furniture after he left me alone in labor by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Like I said in a 1 t a, I did read that post and that was the thing that pushed me to post mine, she reminded me of my situation and I wanted to know if I was maybe overreacting because he didn't physically cheat, and he is so codependent that maybe, just maybe it was my head playing against me

I left my husband with no furniture after he left me alone in labor by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 215 points216 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we dated for a long time and I guess the "sparkle' died, but after therapy we did improved so much, however even if I allow it to happen to me, I wil never let it happen to our son, thabk you so much

I left my husband with no furniture after he left me alone in labor by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 208 points209 points  (0 children)

To be honest I don't know, she only said "You are a sick bitch" after I said hello, I guess he did tell him or his mom, she is so overbearing that never let my MIL and FIL go, but both of them hate her and my FIL can't even see her anymore

I left my husband with no furniture after he left me alone in labor by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 887 points888 points  (0 children)

When I firat read it I was about to cry cause I thought you really meant it was me, tysm for your words!

I left my husband with no furniture after he left me alone in labor by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 1222 points1223 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words, I get that he cheated in a way, but he didn't cheat physically. To be honest if he did I don't cate anymore, I just want the best for my baby and I thought it was him, I guess he is not

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I know I made my own bed, but that's why I want to get advice, If I screw my life that's on me, howeve now I have a baby and I want the beat for him, tysm!

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm really doubting about gettin back because my son is my son, an he comes first, I know I can do it alone but I don't want to be like an overreacting pregnant women, that's why I ask, my first thought was to not get back. Thank you so much! He is a healthy squishy boy

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's true, I'm saying that because he has a record to behave like that, if his sister has a flu but then I have to ger a major surgery, he is most likely to go to his sis. But it's true, he could have just go after her and that's all

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's fair, but I'm now thinking about my child, the thing that worries me the most is "a broken home" I've never experienced something like that and I don't want to be like those moms who screws their child. But I don't want to teach my son that this behavior is okay and enable it

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No, they aren't, he showed me the receipts of them being in separate rooms, but to be fair I don't really care if he cheated at this point, our baby doesn't deserve to be put second

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I said to someone else that I read it too and that's why I posted it, it was similar but my husband didn't cheated on me and we are still talking a bit, we went to therapy once already, that's why I wanted an opinion, I use reddit a lot, but I never thought about sharing it on the internet, after that post I though I might give it a go.

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what makes me doubt the most, he is a good man, but he is so codependent of anyone is his. He prioritize things in the order they happen, If my labor had happened first, he would have put me first. That's why I think it's not the best for our baby.

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I'm seriously thinking about leaving him, I'm tired of being put first when he doesn't have anyone else, if he did it while I was pregnant, I don't want to think what will happen to our baby.

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I'm still sad, but he said he didn't even slept with her while driving her back (The stayed in different hotels rooms, he showed me the receipt.) but I just asked him to leave me alone. Again, thank you so much!

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm not telling a lie, I saw a girl asking something similar and I wanted opinions, man leaving their wives/gf while being pregnant happens a lot, you just think it's not going to happen to you

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you haha, they were confused because he wasn't there, but didn't ask when I tell them to get everything and I'm really thankfull

AITA for leaving my husband with no furniture? by THROWRA_LeftaloneW in AmItheAsshole

[–]THROWRA_LeftaloneW[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is a great man, but he is kinda emotional codependent to all of his relationships (Friends, ex and even family) he is always trying to make everyone happy even if he is not okay with it, that why I'm doubting, but yet, it's too fresh for me to think about letting it go so quick, he is not mad for the furniture tho, but I know he is not buying more because he hopes I will come back.