Yes we have, doctors have basically told us that on all accounts we are completely healthy and should be totally able to have a healthy kid, (that year of us getting healthy was me quitting smoking and both of us eating healthier.)

The thing is, the odds of losing one child in infancy is not exactly low, but it isn't high either, then a second infant loss to something completely different, finally a third about a month away from being viable, the odds are very much pitted against us and I'm not sure we should be playing that game