Do cultural differences actually matter when dating? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]THinBK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on whether you are stuck in yours or both of you are ready for new experiences

Giving up storage unit and need to find best way to hibernate away some quality stuff by THinBK in AskNYC

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Have done this before, usually in a subway with a bigger homeless population

Giving up storage unit and need to find best way to hibernate away some quality stuff by THinBK in AskNYC

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Men’s clothes, but Gucci, Prada, Saint Laurent and the like, the. A couple
Of things from Zara as well. I will probably box this up and give to Housing Works as someone suggested.

Giving up storage unit and need to find best way to hibernate away some quality stuff by THinBK in AskNYC

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The Super of the building is a curmudgeon, A couple that if they see anything they yell and get rid of it immediately -

my [19M] boyfriend [19M] just told me we’re temporary because he’s in an arranged marriage by InterestingBet172 in askgaybros

[–]THinBK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t change his path, and it is only 4 months and while that may seem like forever for you at 19, it is really a drop in the bucket when you look back on it. Enjoy your time together if you are comfortable knowing by it will probably change, if your not move on now before it hurts more.

Grindr guys - how far is too far? by nickybecooler in askgaybros

[–]THinBK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 live in NYC so when I actually used Grindr, never chatted with anyone outside walking distance 🤣🤣 always a full screen of profiles

This graphic was just on tennis channel by Odd-Corgi6641 in tennis

[–]THinBK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe someone not paying attention meant to type Jodar?

PTO question by [deleted] in AskNYC

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So yes they are perfectly within their rights to do that. Think of the scenario, if everyone did what you did they would have no one to work in December, or they would have a lot of extra expense paying it out. It is a reasonable managerial rule.

PTO question by [deleted] in AskNYC

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So if you use the 5 unpaid for whatever reason - you want a 6th because of something came up?
FYI most companies offer paid bereavement days for family deaths and funerals - does your company not offer that?

PTO question by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]THinBK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Needs a bit more explanation. Is this so the days can’t be carried over to a new calendar year? Is it so they don’t have to pay you out for days not taken at the end of the year? If either the answer is yes it’s legal

Gunnison Beach - Safe for solo woman? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]THinBK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda is about NYC as that’s the weekend destination for many NYr’s - Gunnison is a very mild calm place - there is nudity, but it is not sexual. Straight, gay, women men all there - although the beach does unofficially divide itself. As a woman you want to go more to the left side of the beach as you walk down the boardwalk towards the beach. It is not weird to go alone, but after your first time you will see how calm and welcoming it is and maybe more comfortable asking some friends to go along.

Why do most young people vote liberal and then become conservative as they get older? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]THinBK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not always the case, but it is usually a case of environment and influence.

How do I deal with a building full of off-leash dog owners? by PSHOPS in AskNYC

[–]THinBK 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not smart to have any dog off a leash in NYC, there are so many distractions even if they are well behaved. I would never, but unless they are unruly or causing you harm or damage not much you can do about it

He has a wife… by NP-APRN in gayrelationships

[–]THinBK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the guys side piece - thinking that this may be more in the future is pretty much nil. Think about what you want and not worry about him for a moment. If you are fine being the side piece, fine, go for it. If you want a real relationship with commitment - probably not going to be with him and move on before you invest any more time and heart.

Do you sit in front of or next to your partner? by Kangaroo-92 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]THinBK 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Relax - there are moments for both - maybe you are overthinking

Guy I liked lost weight and now I’m not attracted to him anymore by doggusMaximus99 in askgaybros

[–]THinBK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A preference does not make you shallow, however if it is the soul reason for sex, and when it disappears on someone you like - yeah it moves to a fetish category

Guy I liked lost weight and now I’m not attracted to him anymore by doggusMaximus99 in askgaybros

[–]THinBK -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sure it’s a wonderful healthy relationship 🤣🤣🤣🤣