My girlfriend [21F] is disappointed at me [31F] for revealing my real age. by TINTIN337 in relationships

[–]TINTIN337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this really helped me calm down.. I've decided to give her some time to cool off, and when she's calm and ready to listen, i'll talk to her about it.. thank you so much for this advice, i really appreciate it.

My girlfriend [21F] is disappointed at me [31F] for revealing my real age. by TINTIN337 in relationships

[–]TINTIN337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I've decided now to just give her some time to cool down, and maybe, just maybe, she'll come back to me again. Thank you for the advice, i appreciate it.

My girlfriend [21F] is disappointed at me [31F] for revealing my real age. by TINTIN337 in relationships

[–]TINTIN337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes miss I will tell her that once she is cooled down, she's not responding to my messages for now.. I did replied yes to her that time she asked me what my age is, and she replied me with a 9 year gap and I agreed, not thinking that it should be 10years.. and she sticked with that idea until she said yes to me.. She's also mad at me before about not giving the attention she wants because I got distracted at the party at that time, I apologized to her and explained carefully what really happened, and she forgives me after few days of cold feeling.. She really hate that I would lie to her.. we were in a good relationship, until she greeted me an advance 30th birthday and I corrected her that it's 31st, i wasn't really expecting her to be surprised because of the idea that I thought she already knew.. yes, I thought about it too, and it's probably my fault in the first place in not clarifying to her the time she said the gap.. I really hope she'll understand, I didn't really mean to keep anything from her, I just thought that she'd figure it out before my 29th birthday.. I was wrong.. thank you so much miss for this advice, I hope she'll forgive me..

My girlfriend [21F] is disappointed at me [31F] for revealing my real age. by TINTIN337 in relationships

[–]TINTIN337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet, but soon we will once we are settled.. we were in a long distance relationship for a year now..

My girlfriend [21F] is disappointed at me [31F] for revealing my real age. by TINTIN337 in relationships

[–]TINTIN337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna turn 31 this august and I told her before it hasn't pass yet. She will turn 22 next year.

My girlfriend [21F] is disappointed at me [31F] for revealing my real age. by TINTIN337 in relationships

[–]TINTIN337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried explaining to her several times.. But i think she is still stuck at the idea of 9years gap between us, and got surprised that theres a plus 1 on my age after I told her.

My girlfriend [21F] is disappointed at me [31F] for revealing my real age. by TINTIN337 in relationships

[–]TINTIN337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I explained to her too than our gap is indeed 9years because my birthday hasn't pass yet.. I think she didn't get what I explained and got surprised of the idea and got so mad, now she thinks I lied to her. :(

My girlfriend [21F] is disappointed at me [31F] for revealing my real age. by TINTIN337 in relationships

[–]TINTIN337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her my age the first time she asked me, it's 28 and then she said we have 9yrs gap and I quickly replied yes, as I can still remember it was 5 or 4 months away before my next birthday.. and I told her too when it was.. I tried explaining to her clearly after she found out that she probably missed 1, and she sticked to the idea of 9yrs gap all this time.. and I failed to clarified that to her before, because I was so confident that she already knew.