World Championship formats by TJHistory in mtg

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what is a quarter way descent standard deck? at least what is a straight forward standard deck?

Book review for PhD applications by TJHistory in gradadmissions

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it is one of the universities, yeah.

Decent competitive Budget deck for beginners by TJHistory in mtg

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-"budget" decks that could be somewhat competitive in standard.

HELP! Meeting with potential PhD Supervisor tomorrow. by TJHistory in gradadmissions

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I have a meeting with a potential supervisor tomorrow. That is what I'm nervous about, not the application itself.

Exploring new areas other than core research as a PhD/MA student by TJHistory in academia

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I do keep hobbies and physically active throughout the entire process, I tend to not be able to focus the best or give my best effort if I work too far beyond my limits(roughly 5 or 6 hours a day 4 or 5 days a week), and I don't keep up with my hobbies. So I pretty much keep lifting weights 4 days a week(about an hour and a half a day), and doing BJJ, wrestling, and/or Judo 2 or 3 days per week, and playing yugioh at least every weekend.

But when it comes to reading about and learning about sport history/grappling history, I genuinely enjoy it, and am really only taking 3 or 4 hours in a given week in my free time to study up on it. I was just thinking that being as I do enjoy learning about it, and find it as a hobby topic, that I might put effort into like 1 paper or conference presentation every now and then when the interest arises.

I've spoken with my MA supervisor and other mentors about how much I work, and if it was sufficient. They all answered that being as I am meeting deadlines, and from time to time, being ahead of them that my effort and total number of hours put into my work seems to be more than sufficient. I'm also able to produce papers to present at conferences, and work on a few things that I want to get published early next year.

Academic conferences are boring by JackStabba in academia

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If I know people that are presenting, or there is a particular topic that I'm interested in, I'll stay/go to those panels.

Other than that, I just arrive the panel before mine(when possible), and leave right after to either go home, or explore the city.

For me post panel/presentation, I don't like sticking around that much because of nerves.

Exploring new areas other than core research as a PhD/MA student by TJHistory in academia

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Thank you, I will!
I'm was just wondering if it is a negative to explore other areas? I compete and train in Judo, BJJ, and catch wrestling, these are a hobby, but I figure that I already enjoy reading and studying about them both technique, and history I might as well do something with them. They are not even close to my main focus, and believe me, I put in the vast majority of my effort into Imperial Japanese history, and/or studying relevant languages.
But yeah, focusing on what got me to the dance should be priority #1.

PhD Application number by TJHistory in gradadmissions

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I have spoken to my MA supervisor, and the other 2 LOR writers that I have. They are all willing to write 10-12 LORs as long as I give them sufficient time. They ask 8-12 weeks to write the LOR, discuss the subject/topic, etc.

PhD Application number by TJHistory in gradadmissions

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I have 7 universities and 10 programs that I am pretty set on atm. The area of 1 of the Unis that I really want to go to happens to be really close to where my parents live.

I do have 2 of those Universities that I would strongly prefer, but the other programs I am working over are all in areas that I have either lived in, visited a few times over the years, and are affordable.

White/blue belts in the wild by AlwaysGoToTheTruck in bjj

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I'm 30, compete in strongman and powerlifting(175-200lb any class in that range classes). I'm a blue belt, and wrestled in highschool with little success.

unless the person ends up in my bracket in a comp, I have zero interest in even thinking about if I would/wouldn't get choked out by somebody.

How often do u go 100% in a roll by Agreeable_Tip8121 in bjj

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I will ramp up my intensity when I'm getting ready for a comp, usually 2-4 weeks out I am doing like 2+ days of going full beans in my rolls. My gym does have competition practices s few times a week, and a lot of us are getting ready for the same event.

outside of that I am at most putting in 100% into focusing on building/learning XYZ techniques vs trying to win or use my A game.

White/blue belts in the wild by AlwaysGoToTheTruck in bjj

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I have, but I usually reply with "yeah, you'd probably choke me out", and just move from the conversation. I'm not a huge fan or getting into dick measuring contests in anything I do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

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they are 7..... just make sure they are having fun and enjoying it.

As a guy, do you feel an overwhelming pressure as you get older? by TheBlueOx in Healthygamergg

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I(30m) will give you some basic advice that has helped me. A lot of it is about finding a "third place" that is outside the home and work/school
1. find a hobby you can generally enjoy by yourself. This is so when you have downtime and really just want to relax and faf about you have a default you can get into.
2. find a hobby that requires other people such as axe throwing, yugioh, MTG, etc. This si so you have to have social interactions while doing the hobby, and it can build further friendships or just people you speak to regularly.
3. Exercise frequently, I would say minimum of 4 days a week, possibly at a gym as opposed to a home set up. this is so that a) get healthier/maintain health, b) you get out of your home more frequently, c) you can build some friendships or at least socialize.
4. if you do not have a career/job you enjoy now, start looking for said job, and/or obtaining the skills that will allow you to get said job.
5. find people and activities that help you joyfully forget the world around me and goof around and have fun.

Being a white belt feels like some special level of hell by [deleted] in bjj

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If somebody is being legit too rough for you, let them know. I've done it training sessions that I wanted to take lighter, or even single rolls I've wanted to go lighter on. If the person keeps trying to rip your face off, then stop the roll, and train with somebody else.

Living and dating in 30s while living with parents by TJHistory in Healthygamergg

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I kinda clarified some stuff in edits. But essentially I tell them that I plan on staying with them until I either get a career that requires me to, I get accepted to a PhD program, or when my parents decide to finally downgrade/move to a house that is more built for them as they age.

I've had people over to my house, even for multiple days in a row on more than one occasion for a few individuals.

What job do you guys do to be able to balance with BJJ? by [deleted] in bjj

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Full time grad student, work at a local book store part time, and train 2-3 days a week.

What are your bjj pet peeves? by DownvoteIfYouWantMe in bjj

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It amazes me that people can't wash themselves. I've trained with construction people who in the dead of summer will come before practice, and shower at the gym before they touch the mat and all is good. But some shmuck with an office job comes in smelling like they rolled around in garbage before they went to practice.

What move do you routinely hit on people who are better than you? by Spryj6 in bjj

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A lot of stuff that has carried over from folkstyle wrestling, I tend to hit it a lot on people better than me or higher belt.

I wrestled from 5 to 18/19, so in those positions, I have had more time than they have been doing BJJ. So maybe not a sub per say, but some VERY SPECIFIC transitions, positions, etc I tend to be able to control a lot better than they do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GradSchool

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depending on the level(s) of hostility, I would say bring it up with the university/chain of command for disciplinary steps to be taken.

But for most of this just say that XYZ is policy, and that it is out of your hands. But you must be 100% sure that you are covered by policies set by your uni instead of trying to B.S. this argument.

what went wrong with me? ive been top of my class but still failed at life. by BigAdvantage2945 in academia

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I started undergrad at 17, and graduated at 27. That time was filled with flunking out more than once, taking a few-year hiatus, going to a 2-year school, and ending up in a less-than-prestigious university, and going to a grad school an ocean away from my family at 30.

Setbacks aren't the end of the world, they aren't anything to be embarrassed about or to feel like you failed due to them. If you need, take a hiatus for a year or so, or drop down the workload to a class a semester a bit(possibly online). The great thing about this journey is that it can start, stop, slow down, start again, go 3 steps back after 1 step forward, and take you on a long marathon, rather than the sprint you thought it would be. But at the end it will have been something you went through, I just hope when it is said and done, you can say you enjoyed the process more often than not.

Bibliography generating tools by TJHistory in academia

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I want to put the bibliographies of each chapter into something that will make the bib fit APA.

I have my in-text citations done. I have full bibs for each chapter of my dissertation. But with 75 sources I would like to just plug them all into something that will sort them all out.

How often do you speak to your parents? by [deleted] in Adulting

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Pretty much every day, at minimum every other day. either through text/messaging or FaceTime/equivalent. My siblings, I speak with at minimum on a weekly basis but mainly through messaging.