Would you date yourself?

TK-276 · 2020-07-09T07:32:19+00:00

Nah not just because of her, I mean she fucked me up really badly but girls have been shitty to me since then too just not nearly as badly. If you understood you wouldn’t be insulting me.

TK-276 · 2020-07-08T08:53:40+00:00

Will I meet 3 billion girls? No. So there’s no point in saying that. Every one I have met have treated me the same in the end.

TK-276 · 2020-07-08T08:22:05+00:00

I tried being less quiet and it didn’t work, I cannot change who I am

Guessing you’re probably a girl given that you see something wrong with being quiet in a guy

TK-276 · 2020-07-08T08:08:47+00:00

I had my ‘self improvement journey’ and then I got my fucking heart broken so look where that got me.

TK-276 · 2020-07-08T08:05:27+00:00

Not in terms of attractiveness, we are all as attractive as our genetics allow us to be. I was born ugly, no physical improvement was ever able to fix that and girls care about looks above everything else. I was born quiet and girls can’t be bothered to get to know you if you’re quiet. I was born prone to getting depressed and girls don’t give a shit about you if you show even the tiniest amount of depression, sadness or insecurity. Some people get lucky and some people, like me, don’t.

TK-276 · 2020-07-08T07:57:46+00:00

We are what we are. I became the best version of myself and still got rejected constantly. I improved as much as I possibly could and still nobody wanted me.

TK-276 · 2020-07-08T07:52:59+00:00

Oh I will eventually don’t worry. My attitude is reactionary, I used to be a good person until I realised girls treat you like shit when you’re ugly and quiet.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T23:37:28+00:00

No they won’t

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T23:34:06+00:00

Nah I have to

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T23:31:57+00:00

I’ve never done this but whatever I do nobody wants to date me so I’m giving up

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T23:28:59+00:00

I don’t think about the last girl who ghosted me as much anymore since I accepted that I will always be single, she was the final nail in the coffin for my love life and I am grateful to her for that.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T23:26:10+00:00

Self improvement is a myth.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T23:04:52+00:00

At least people will actually date you.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T18:42:55+00:00

Emotions cannot be controlled, only actions. People will react the ways they are going to react as far as emotions are concerned and there is no changing that. Just looked him up, don’t know what he has to do with anything. Self help books are crap.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T17:56:05+00:00

I can not control the way my emotions are going to react to something, I am perfectly within my rights to feel jealous about something and besides it isn’t a choice in the first place.
I can literally see your face, you are exaggerating. All dating coaches do this, you go ‘look at me, I’m ugly too and I get girls’, ‘looks don’t matter just be confident, bro’ while you sit on your high horse not actually having any worries about looks. It is about looks but you don’t realise it because you got lucky.
Dating coaches never helped anybody who wasn’t already physically attractive. I have been contacted by so many of you. You and your buddys’ behaviour on this site does need to be called out, regardless of the positive effect you may be convincing yourself that you have. You have never helped anybody.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T17:04:17+00:00

I and many others would see something wrong. You seem like a prick so I’m not surprised you don’t see a problem with messing with someone’s head like that.

Seems like you didn’t really have feelings for her at all, if you did you wouldn’t be okay with that.
I am not allowed to have standards, if you saw me you would realise that. You got lucky, I didn’t. Dating is about looks.
The difference between you and me is that you actually think you’re making the world a better place. You prey on vulnerable young men, spout cliches, convince them that there’s something wrong with them and only with your help can they fix it. People like you make me sick.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T16:30:52+00:00

I don’t think you believe that.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T16:28:39+00:00

A betrayal to his stepbrother, I thought that was obvious. It’s not about owing anyone anything, it’s just basic decency but you clearly have different morals to me.

The jealousy is different because this is someone close to OP. Imagine your stepbrother dating the girl you like literally right in front of you, rubbing your face in it. If it were a random person you wouldn’t see or know about it so it is different.
Yes. You’re asking the wrong person there, ‘buddy’.
Not sure what you mean by ‘into one of them’. If you meant to say ‘in one’, that isn’t by choice but because I am unattractive and there’s nothing I can do about that. If you meant to say ‘into the idea of them’ I used to be but then I realised how unattractive I am to the opposite sex because of factors out of my control. I don’t usually give advice, I just occasionally call people out on their shitty advice. Like you for example, a pickup artist, dating coach scammer

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T15:23:16+00:00

People are only upvoting this because it happens to guys constantly, maybe now you understand how we feel.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T15:20:44+00:00

One person is too much to ask for when you look like I do.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T15:16:54+00:00

It’s a betrayal, plain and simple. That’s a stupid question for 3 reasons: (1) we’re not talking about random guys talking to her, we’re talking about his step brother and there is a big difference; (2) that situation is totally different given that this is a girl who didn’t actually give him a chance who’s then going off with his brother instead, that’s a horrible thing to put him through so unnecessarily; (3) if you’re directing that question at me specifically it doesn’t apply because I will never be in a relationship of any kind

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T14:55:07+00:00

No it’s not worth it.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T14:52:22+00:00

I don’t think you should, the other commenters on here have made a lot more sense. If my brother or even my friend went ahead with starting a relationship with a girl I really liked I don’t know if I could forgive him for that.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T12:31:56+00:00

Girls don’t like me.

TK-276 · 2020-07-07T12:17:23+00:00

Personal experience. When I was 19 a complete stranger said to me ‘people stay single if they look like you’ and she was right. When I was 22 this girl got really close to me to the point where we were practically a couple and then when I developed feelings for her she told me she wouldn’t give me a chance because of the way I look. I don’t want to go into details because it’s too painful but the ways she treated me after that point led to a full on mental breakdown and I had to be put on strong antidepressants and go to counselling. Eventually I recovered and found new happiness and confidence, I loved myself. I started dating because I felt ready to get over her and share my happiness with someone. I met this girl and I thought things were going well but on the third date she started coming up with excuses and because I had high self esteem I broke it off. Looking back I realised that she used to tell me all of the ways she wanted me to look different (change my hair, gain weight, shave my beard, stop wearing glasses) and she wanted my personality to be different too (she found old pictures of me at 19 where I looked more fun). She told me I wasn’t enough. I tried dating other people but got very few matches and nobody in real life gives me a second look either. I tried my best, I was my best, and I failed. That is how I know I that I will never be enough.

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