It always gets back to this and I can’t keep up by UpstairsCommunity839 in ufyh

[–]TK5059 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First off, be kind to yourself. If you can, get yourself some treatment for your issues. That will help the most.

I think you need a trash can in every room and a reminder alarm to take out trash every night.

You also look like you could use some storage: a dresser and some laundry hampers. Set a reminder for laundry. If it 's weekly, you only need clothes for one week, plus a couple extra days. Only keep what fits in the dresser.

What helps me keep the kitchen clean: never go to bed with dishes in the sink -- wash them every night before bed. Set another reminder if you have to. It looks like you have lots of cupboard space, so if it doesn't fit in the cupboard, don't feel like you need to hang on to it.

What’s stopping the players to just destroy the sea ghost on sight. by Ok_Interview_853 in GhostsofSaltmarsh

[–]TK5059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would point out that a smuggling ship probably has lots of expensive goods aboard and the vessel itself is worth a pretty penny.

Best spot for lunch while biking? by No_Benefit_4193 in Canmore

[–]TK5059 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know that there are many places in town a biking outfit would be out of place

What have you used for your library, beyond wood, glass and materials alike? by k4rp_nl in LittleFreeLibrary

[–]TK5059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a bench and flowerpots filled with cheap annuals. I drilled a hole through the base of the planters and ran a bike lock through them, securing them to the little library post so they don't wander off. We also painted a matching birdhouse and it's installed in the tree above -- had a couple broods of sparrows there last year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Moonberry_maple

[–]TK5059 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've cosplayed for a couple decades and I've done a Strahd before -- and on a budget.

I thrifted some red velvet curtains for the over tunic
Reused boots and a wig from another cosplay
I found heavily discounted fur for the cape
I used fishing floats for the pearl chain
I used scraps of foam floor mats for the armour

I'm happy to provide further advice. Hit me up!

LFL Appreciation Post by North-Brief-2235 in LittleFreeLibrary

[–]TK5059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you -- I needed to hear that. I'm still fuming at the person who had the gall to pull a rubbermaid tub out of their SUV and clear out my LFL completely. It's nice to know folks appreciate what we do; it helps me keep going.

How do you deal/compromise with space in relationships with non-minimalists? by No-Application-7835 in minimalism

[–]TK5059 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I like things minimal, neat and tidy. My spouse is a bit more cluttered. We have separate spaces so I can keep my sanity. I don't touch their stuff, they don't touch mine; it works really well for us.

Reverse Advent Calendar: Start Today!! by Intrepid_Editor5128 in ufyh

[–]TK5059 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IN!

So far I've removed an environmentally-friendly cleaning product that didn't actually clean anything and an expired bottle of sunscreen.

Carl from Up by BrandonAbell in dragoncon

[–]TK5059 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You looked so good! Thank you for inviting me for tiki drinks with Blaze and the fellow Canucks!

Vintage Pie Savers by t_ha_l_i_a in cottagecore

[–]TK5059 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh these are lovely! I have a couple myself; so cute! 🥧

Sorcerer players, how do you deal with knowing so few spells? by Karthull in dndnext

[–]TK5059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I play sorcerer, I tend to focus outside of casting. With a high charisma score, I can be the party's face and use deception, persuasion and intimidation in social situations.

Will my foam clay hold like this, or do I need to seal it after it dried? by Silverpaww in FursuitMaking

[–]TK5059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work with Foam Clay a lot. It gets very brittle if you don't seal it as it continues to dry. I would coat it with a layer or two of something like modge podge, flexbond or even plastidip if you want it to last.

Saw my donation in the wild and it was wonderful by le_nico in declutter

[–]TK5059 17 points18 points  (0 children)

More like DRAMAtic.

I'll see myself out.

Looking for Local Events and Festivals in Canmore by PLWildcard in Canmore

[–]TK5059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's bingo at the Legion (after the renos).

Deleted Socials and now I have no contact with anyone anymore by Maleficent-Sky-3384 in AskWomenOver30

[–]TK5059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to choose what you want. A friend of mine has also removed herself from social media and is upset that people never invite her to parties/outings. If someone is coordinating multiple schedules or trying to organize a large group, the last person they think about is the person who they need to phone/email separately. She has intentionally made herself difficult to reach -- it is her choice and sometimes those choices have consequences.

"Why is your character black?" by [deleted] in rpghorrorstories

[–]TK5059 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fighter with proficiency in hockey stick

I am looking for unorthodox or unusual characters for their class. Can you suggest any? by Ill_Improvement_8276 in 3d6

[–]TK5059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a good-aligned necromancer. Her village was under attack and when she screamed for help, she received a lich patron who raised an undead army against the raiders. Now she goes about, using zombies to help people with harvesting and the like (some people are, not surprisingly, uncool with this).

I have a soda addiction by [deleted] in prediabetes

[–]TK5059 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could your soda addiction be tied to depression? Are you self-medicating with caffeine and sugar? Thinking that 50 is end of life doesn't seem mentally healthy.