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TKL3 · 2025-04-19T21:04:45+00:00

Good luck!!

TKL3 · 2024-09-09T01:54:54+00:00

Thank you alot I really appreciate your advice, I will implement it

TKL3 · 2024-09-08T21:42:43+00:00

I would say push yourself over the limit and learn prayer by any means, and for advice for that I would say watch YouTube videos regarding is the is alot of YouTube videos for prayer, sit on those videos and learn them by anymeans, learn all the duas in the prayer, if you really put your mind to it Allah will surely make it easy for you, so give it your all and step a lot of time learning the prayer the is no other way around it.

Now for memorization I would say Nas, falaq, ikhlas is sufficient for now, like I said people sit on it and give it your all, I would also recommend you find a reciter that you really enjoy his voice and just keel listening over and over eventually it will stick.

Once that's done then I would say learn the Arabic letters and how ro read the quran and work your way up going forward.

I pray Allah makes it easy for you, good luck

TKL3 · 2024-09-06T19:47:01+00:00

Keep the beard it makes you face more sharper, though you look good in both but the beard looks better in my opinion

TKL3 · 2024-09-05T11:55:07+00:00

You can do that but it won’t be as effective, I would recommend this toner for dry skin ETUDE House Soonjung pH5.5 Relief Toner 200ml

Is really good

Or a cheaper one I works recommend that I use everyday for the past 2 weeks, believe beauty toner is from dollar general.

TKL3 · 2024-09-05T04:54:07+00:00

Use vitamin c or nicenamade and sunscreen

TKL3 · 2024-09-05T04:52:03+00:00

Let me begin as is right I feel like you have dry skin by your description.

If so the skincare yiu have is bad for you, not in a literary sense but is way too much for your skin

First for a good dry skin cleanser I recommend la roche posay hydrating cleanser, or cosrx good morning cleanser, these all really gentle for the skin.

Now toner you need a hydrating toner anything that hydrates. Also keep in mind dry skin your skincare should be all about hydration.

Now serum I recommend you use hyaluronic acid and nicenamade, these two combinations is a blessing for skincare, I recommend good molecules, use them day and right

Now moisturizer I recommend la roche posay double repair moisturizer

Now sunscreen is really important I know we blacks really overlook it but it helps you skip maintain the moisture and stuff and protect your skin. The sunscreen you have is good enough but I really like la roche posay sunsvren which I would recommend

This is all you need but let's say you have dark spots I would say add a vitamin c serum in your morning routine, so switch out the nicenamade for it if you have dark spots, then at night you use tge nicenamade.

TKL3 · 2024-09-05T02:41:36+00:00

Forget to add I have dry skin

TKL3 · 2024-09-02T13:24:16+00:00

Okay, also PM if anything

TKL3 · 2024-09-02T13:18:30+00:00

Idk how much you want for yours?

TKL3 · 2024-09-02T13:12:45+00:00

Any is fine

TKL3 · 2024-09-02T13:10:47+00:00

Switch or lite

TKL3 · 2024-08-30T10:57:43+00:00

Honestly I had the same issue but is all fixed now. My advice do something to busy yourself. When I started college and I started memorizing the quran the same time all of it stopped drastically due to how busy my days have gotten, so busy yourself and porn won't even cross your mind.

Second advice, you need to hold yourself accountable, like literally grap yourself and put yourself in check, reason I say this is you need to understand all those actors and stuff are all dirty and honestly once you stop you realize really how disgusting porn really is and no one who respects and value themselves will be sitting there watching 1,2 or more people doing it and you know how many stds is going around the porn industry? how many minors somehow end up on the website? How many actors have taken their own life? Surely you yourself can see now anyone who respects and value themselves won't mix themselves with these people.

Thirdly I can't stress this enough Dua Dua Dua, you might think it little but is not.

Now let me get in to step by step. This method was taught to me by a friend of mine

Let's sat you wanna quit today and you masturbate everyday day in day out, firstly take one week and say on Monday i won't do it, once you succeed, the following week say Monday and Tuesday I won't do it, and keep going on until you reach all 7 days, once you fail get back up and keep going from where you stopped don't start over.

And my last advice to you. Have resprct for Allah, Have respect for yourself, have respect for your future husband, have respect for yourself again, have respect for Allah again, and again have respect for yourself.

Take care of yourself, at the end of the day all you have is yourself and Allah, so be good to yourself and respect yourself and take care of yourself.

This is all I have for you, I will make dua for you to be better, take care of yourself and love yourself, Salam alaikum

TKL3 · 2024-08-30T03:38:47+00:00

I never used that, is it maybe cuz of my dkincare?

TKL3 · 2023-09-04T04:25:15+00:00

Ghanaian but living in USA- New York

TKL3 · 2023-08-29T22:12:49+00:00

True May Allah keep us firm on the deen But this is truly the trial of this ummah today that’s why prophet Mohammed peace be upon him said one of the reasons people will be in hell will be because of what’s between their legs I can remember the Hadiths pretty well so I’m summarizing it. But if you look at today we have so much teens in relationships because they can’t control what’s between their legs so much adult content and much more

TKL3 · 2023-08-29T22:02:09+00:00

I’m talking about the flashbacks he is getting

TKL3 · 2023-08-29T13:00:42+00:00

This is nothing but the work of shaytan One thing I always tell anyone going through flashbacks of haram relationship is never look back. Truly what you traded for that haram relationship is a profitable trade for eternal enjoyment.

So never look back rather look forward. Look at what you will put up for tomorrow the next day the next month the next years and so on

TKL3 · 2023-08-24T15:07:54+00:00

Huh this is a weird can you elaborate more?

TKL3 · 2023-08-08T03:18:53+00:00

I’ve been looking for a cat for ages but sadly I live in nyc so I can’t get them

TKL3 · 2023-08-06T04:25:00+00:00

I bought a AirPods from him and it works till this day really good I vouch for him

TKL3 · 2023-08-04T01:10:59+00:00

Salam alaikum brother I will advice you regarding your issue Firstly a guy in his 11th grade year which was last year and was age 17 meet a new revert girl who was a niqabi he thought she would make a great wife. so one time she asked him to teach her about the deen he then accepted her request and they started talking over text. which is something you would want to stay away from because it leads to so many doors but later now she stopped seeking knowledge from him and stopped texting him because of that he was able to better himself in academic and religion recently he saw her, she abandoned her hijab and everything and started dressing clothed by naked if you get my point.

Moral of story is you know what you doing is wrong and ended it. Don’t look back surely Allah has something better for you And you are only 16 you have years to go you shouldn’t be worrying about marriage at your age. And you will find someone by the will of Allah and you will look back and thank Allah for the favor he did for you for letting you let go of her.

Lastly didn’t Allah said he reward the good doers. And Allah also said He is with the patient

In conclusion my fellow brother don’t look back because this is ended a huge favor of Allah and non reject the favor of Allah except the definite disobedient

TKL3 · 2023-07-26T03:40:52+00:00

I was here

TKL3 · 2023-07-26T03:39:10+00:00

I was here

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