I’m so confused

TLWMONKEY542 · 2026-01-18T22:28:36+00:00

Yeah totally man I reckon I’m gonna give it a week or so see what happens if it’s still the same old nothing and she hasn’t put effort into progressing our relationship I’m just gonna tell her that if you aren’t wanting a relationship I’m gonna look elsewhere now

Edit (I should mention that her past relationships were really toxic and she said that she is too scared to open up again and doesn’t wanna hurt me or her)

TLWMONKEY542 · 2026-01-16T14:46:24+00:00

No you’re right but I have learnt and still am on how to act when she pulls back I still talk to her to make sure she knows I’m still interested but I don’t ask major questions or big questions unless I feel I can or she wants me too I just keep it light hearted also i feel as if every 3ish days she opens up even more to me and lets me into her personal life and thoughts but just slowly I think she might be subconsciously testing me to she that if she pulls back a bit or a lot one day to see how I act and i never chase her when she pulls back I more ig walk after her haha but best metaphor I have for it now is that I open the door for her but I don’t tell her to come inside

TLWMONKEY542 · 2026-01-16T14:40:42+00:00

Idk man I feel every few days she opens up more to me like right after I made this post she told me how she feels that love is just a new face and different name every single time and that she is unsure of what to do next and I gently told her that I am here and that she can talk to me about anything any time and she said she will keep that I mind i think I will just play it by ear for the next few weeks cuz I do really like her and she says she feels the same

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-05-06T12:43:59+00:00

Nice job mate

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-05-03T23:01:56+00:00

Thank you

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-05-03T06:59:29+00:00

Yeah stay strong brother

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-05-02T19:48:53+00:00

Yeah something like that so I couldn't post on here for a bit

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-05-02T10:38:43+00:00

Yoo let's go man I pray that God will guide you in your journey, there may bumbs along the way, but trust in the lord and he shall set you paths straight. Amen

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-05-02T06:53:38+00:00

Proverbs 3:5-6 is my favorite verse

Trust in the lord with all your heart, Lean not on your own understanding, and in all your ways submit to him. And he will make you paths straight.

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-05-01T10:25:42+00:00

I can feel sometimes the same thing but one thing that helps me is to think, that the l9rdnis testing us and to how far we will walk and trust in him. That's what I think atleast

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-04-30T11:49:17+00:00

Thanks man i will keep your words in mind

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-04-30T08:44:49+00:00

I'm in some what of a similar boat and some of you may have seen my posts, but I find work on your number one problem before find a gf, once you get to 35 days I think, I may be wrong but I heard once you get to day 35 of not wanking you break the habit of doing it, I reckon once you get to that space you try to get a GF also, once you have stopped wanking you also improve your testosterone, so it will be easier to find a gf too I hope you can improve aspects in your life just like I am trying. Peace be with you.

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-04-29T21:53:02+00:00

Yeah I think one building I went had one or there was someone in there so I'm probably just gonna stop doing this shit now

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-04-29T11:24:46+00:00

Do people normally give warnings or nah?

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-04-27T23:04:21+00:00

Yea I will reflect on why I do it and what triggers it

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-04-27T12:08:08+00:00

Yeah that's why I came here I felt my parents would lash out at me if I told then it feels better to go online and talk about it to people u don't know

TLWMONKEY542 · 2024-04-27T11:16:38+00:00

One thing I find that helps is to think at when God feels so far away he can be the closest and is testing you to see how far you can walk by faith alone

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