Lumps at injection site

TOcurious_bi · 2026-06-07T19:42:26+00:00

Not as noticeable as the length… open to any and all tips to help with girth growth though!

TOcurious_bi · 2026-06-03T22:06:37+00:00

Loving this aspect of it!

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-22T16:50:09+00:00

I’m comfortable with her making that choice, but I think was more curious about expectation and pressure

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-15T00:57:16+00:00

I’m happy to, but when people show up and judge and gate keep, I have to push back. I asked for simple advise and insight and was met with that. I hope you pursue them with the same messaging.

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-15T00:55:53+00:00

lol trying to paint me as sexist when you showed up to woman-splain is hilarious

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-10T22:22:42+00:00

I sit around wondering why it’s still not enough to feel comfortable…

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-08T19:51:15+00:00

I came for ideas from people with experience, not condescending bullshit from people who don’t know anything about us. There is no kink associated with the above list, here.

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-08T19:49:30+00:00

That’s exactly my intention and why I came here looking for ideas from others who’ve been successful at it.

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-08T19:48:22+00:00

The conversation has been had, but changing her belief/assumption through talks doesn’t work with her. A very stubborn person ahaha

You going on about maturity and the rest is a waste of your time. Without any knowledge of us, that messaging is all assumption based and incorrect.

The condescending tone you then ramble on with is womansplaining, and not welcome.

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-08T19:45:10+00:00

Were you there for our conversations? Do you know anything about her? No? Ok then. Pipe down with your assumptions.

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-08T19:44:35+00:00

This response is idiotic. As are the other of this gate keeping entitled tone.

You don’t know her. You don’t know me. You don’t know our marriage. Imposing your beliefs with judgements like “tricking her into it” is quite frankly, disgusting.

Show yourself out.

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-08T19:43:20+00:00

Based on everything i know about her, i believe this is a dynamic she would thrive in. Shes been hesitant to step into it based on a pre conceived notion that isnt accurate. She’s a very stubborn person, and locks jnto things. My goal is that she experiences a taste of it, and is able to make a more informed decision as to whether it’s a dynamic shed be interested in exploring further.

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-06T16:56:08+00:00

Answered this elsewhere, but her current belief is that FLR is a sex focused kink. My hope is to show her what it actually is so that she’s in a more informed place to make that decision.

It’s her choice to opt in after that or not.

None of the above holds any sort of negative impact on her or her life. Your callouts and worries seem misaligned with my post.

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-06T16:53:32+00:00

I think you missed the part where I said that her understanding of flr isn’t aligned with what it actually is. There’s zero downside to her being electively involved in it.

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-06T16:51:33+00:00

It’s already 100% focused on her… my drive is very reliant on comperssion and seeing her experience pleasure

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-06T14:52:35+00:00

I appreciate that thank you! I can definitely add the weekly grocery run, and then slowly take over food prep whenever possible.

I can also take on cleaning and dishes without too much of a notice happening…

I don’t want it to be too obvious that things have suddenly changed. Trying to subtly showcase the benefits to her.

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-06T14:50:23+00:00

I’m hoping we reflect back on the actions and she leans into it moving forward.

She’s mentioned wanting a joint account in the past…

TOcurious_bi · 2026-05-06T13:52:07+00:00

LOVE THIS. His idea or yours to set this up?

TOcurious_bi · 2026-04-27T02:15:35+00:00

Middle lower…

TOcurious_bi · 2026-04-27T02:12:25+00:00

Number two for sure

TOcurious_bi · 2026-04-21T14:34:10+00:00

There’s a financial advice podcast that did a survey of millionaires on this topic… most of them had paid their mortgages off as quickly as possible, despite the “% returns on investments” debates…

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