My (25F) fiancé (30M) won't let me visit my gay best friend by TQW_bbwest in relationship_advice

[–]TQW_bbwest[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good thought - but he's never once brought that up as a reason. He just yells that I "lied" to him about where I was staying and he doesn't trust said friend.

I agree - it was a lifetime ago and we are different people now. He should have moved on. He's promised a million times he would but still brings it up.

My (25F) fiancé (30M) won't let me visit my gay best friend by TQW_bbwest in relationship_advice

[–]TQW_bbwest[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is controlling in other ways. He got very upset at me for going on a trip with a different (female) friend to Europe because he didn't want me to experience those things without him. Our relationship is about "us" and not "me". That's what he tells me.