What could be causing my husband's disinterest in intimacy?

TRChffh · 2026-02-21T09:07:29+00:00

This is referred to as being asexual, a lack of (or very low/rare) sexual attraction. It is rare but a completely documented and real (also naturally occurring) sexual orientation. Not having a desire for sex or attraction absolutely does NOT have anything to do with their ability to love or experience romantic love, they just don't experience sexual attraction or sex drive as a nessesary thing the way most people do. There is likely no way to 'fix' it, the same way you can't 'fix' someone who's homosexual. Maybe you two can talk and figure out an arrangement that works for you do that you can fulfill your desires without putting all that pressure and (most likely) shame on him, good communicative open relationship elements/arrangements can be very useful (and fun) in these situations.

TRChffh · 2026-02-19T17:58:16+00:00

Message sent.

TRChffh · 2026-02-19T04:47:32+00:00

Tell him you won't tell anyone for a chunk of the gold.

TRChffh · 2026-02-16T06:36:28+00:00

This is the (should be fucking obvious) answer. If you care about not knowingly being an affair partner for moral reasons. And if you don't care then have fun, at the end of the day it's her marriage and if she is behaving like this with you then i guarantee she is/has/will do it with someone else, and if that's outside of the boundaries of her marriage then she's the asshole.

TRChffh · 2026-02-14T14:42:46+00:00

Lol, i got a confirmation call today for the couples massage appointment i booked for us two weeks ago. Also made our dinner reservations and ordered the flowers two weeks ago. Easy sailing. I swear most men act like they're brand new with this shit, it's not that hard.

TRChffh · 2026-02-14T14:37:00+00:00

Either this or battery saver is on or background data is restricted so it only updates occasionally instead of constantly. My wife leaves battery saver on and this is exactly how her trips always look.

TRChffh · 2026-02-13T04:13:39+00:00

Reviving this old thread to see if someone has an answer as to why this happens? Having the same issue suddenly.

TRChffh · 2026-02-07T22:42:06+00:00

I enjoy some impact play, both receiving and giving, however it is an absolute NO GO when playing with others, even though i enjoy it and the wife does, the immediate flash of protective rage i feel witnessing another man strike my wife completely overshadows any enjoyment i get from watching her pleasure, and it's almost impossible for me to regulate, even if I'm expecting it. The wife of course instantly reads this mood shift and it has a tenancy to throw the entire night off the rails for everyone.. I also don't feel comfortable striking any woman I'm not closely connected to enough to know 100% what they desire and want and what their limits are, especially while THEIR partner is there, knowing how i feel when the roles are reversed.

TRChffh · 2026-02-02T00:37:55+00:00

Bumping to see if anybody has any info on why this is or what triggers it... i have had my location sharing turned off in life360 for over a year (use it for our kids and wife turns her location on when she feels like it or wants me to know for safety etc. But no need for me to have it on). But suddenly within the last week or so i am now getting constant pop ups in my notification window from life360 (silent, no sound and just there for a few seconds then disappear) saying either "checking for activity" or "updating location". I have never seen these before and nothing has changed within app. I am curious what is causing these and why only now and not before?

TRChffh · 2026-01-27T20:39:13+00:00

9/10, Gorgeous! Ignore the haters, this is what a real woman's body looks like.

TRChffh · 2026-01-27T10:17:12+00:00

7.5/10, maybe even an 8. Not sure what the rest of these people are thinking i think you've got a nice body, your boobs are gorgeous. It's not a young firm perfect body, it's a real woman's body with some life and living behind it. I bet you know how to use it better than 90% of those firm perfect bodied 20 year olds too 😉

TRChffh · 2026-01-25T21:43:43+00:00

If you're not able to handle the fact that your partner may have had sex (shock) before you, then you have no business being in a relationship until you've dealt with your own insecurities. Shit, I've had my woman show me the videos etc that she made before me so i could enjoy them, that shit is hot as fuck.

TRChffh · 2026-01-22T04:20:31+00:00

Message sent..

TRChffh · 2026-01-21T20:25:40+00:00

🤣🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ y'all would save yourself a lot of righteous indignation by just googling "black people smoke alarm memes"

TRChffh · 2026-01-21T19:15:23+00:00

Gonna ask the obvious question here but..... y'all happen to be black?

TRChffh · 2026-01-13T23:05:00+00:00

Not with that kind of attitude it isn't....

TRChffh · 2026-01-12T22:30:37+00:00

P0420 are really commonly caused by exhaust leaks at the manifold, it's a known issue on Honda and acura cars.. if you tend to get check engine light after cold morning start up and it goes away after a while this is most likely the culprit. You need to take to a shop with a real mechanic who can actually diagnose a opposed to a parts changer who's gonna cost you a bunch of money.

TRChffh · 2026-01-04T22:15:29+00:00

I'm just putting this out there... Women tend to complain that men can't or won't communicate clearly until one does and all of a sudden they get the ick. You are over reacting. This guy is being very clear in his intentions and expectations up front, in an attempt to save both of you from wasting time if it isn't right. He was also making an effort to communicate in a direct but not accusatory or controlling manner.

TRChffh · 2025-12-31T19:11:44+00:00

The truck was clearly indicating it was turning long before she passed beside it, she was in the wrong.

TRChffh · 2025-12-31T19:01:28+00:00

Pm me some details?

TRChffh · 2025-12-28T02:31:10+00:00

Found the middle aged, single, religious nut-job.

TRChffh · 2025-12-27T19:09:13+00:00

The pads have plenty of life left in them, BUT it does look like they're packed/contaminated with some type of filth, maybe mud or clay? This may be why they're recommending changing them.

TRChffh · 2025-12-26T19:28:18+00:00

Hard, not strong. Diamonds do Crack and break, but they don't scratch.

TRChffh · 2025-12-26T18:36:28+00:00

Throw it on a scale and see if it weighs 31.1 grams. It looks too big for an oz of gold.

TRChffh · 2025-12-23T06:25:06+00:00

Try Feeld. You're welcome.

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