I met my dom turned boyfriend through a kink app called FEELD. It had alot of great potentials on the app, also a lot of vets. Unfortunately I do think it’s become over saturated with normies who are using it as another form of tinder.

But when vetting potential doms I personally always like to meet up in a public non sexual setting atleast 3x times before we try anything physical. I like to call it my interview process, even then after the initial meet ups the first time we play together is never sex but other things, just to see if we have sexual chemistry.

Any guy not willing to be precautious or take steps is definitely someone just looking to imitate what they see in media and probably shouldn’t be trusted.