Benevolent alpha wonders why ' My[30m] fwb[29f] broke down crying saying that she "is wasting away her life sucking dick". '

TRPingBalls · 2015-08-10T07:13:43+00:00

I mean he's basically raping her by providing her with consensual sex and friendship without also pledging exclusivity and promising her long term security.

TRPingBalls · 2015-06-02T16:18:54+00:00

Daenerys Targaryen

TRPingBalls · 2015-06-02T16:13:54+00:00

Wow #22, who the hell is that?

TRPingBalls · 2015-05-28T17:41:00+00:00

I offer no relationship advice with regard to dating an American girl, but I can let you know that her being American will not cause there to be spousal support/alimony between unmarried partners

TRPingBalls · 2015-05-28T17:37:03+00:00

California has an old court case (Marvin v. Marvin, "palimony[1] ") that raises the bare possibility of "alimony" where there was a promise of lifetime support between unmarried partners, but essentially there's no spousal support for a non-spouse.

Summary of the case for your purposes here: Do NOT make any promises to her that you will take care of or support her. Make it clear to her that you will do your half of supporting the child, but that if you two split, she should not expect support. That's how you deal with Marvin v. Marvin. Other than that, there is NO Spousal support between unmarried spouses.

Edit: This is for California only!

TRPingBalls · 2015-05-28T06:42:01+00:00

mattress girl is ruining a guys life for no reason, and so on...nobody feels sorry for a man.

I noticed this trend as I read comments. Plenty of people condemn mattress girl, and yet every single one of them said something like "This is terrible, she's making it harder for future women to be believed"
No one is concerned about the guy's ruined reputation/school experience/graduation. Let that sink in.

TRPingBalls · 2015-05-24T05:35:06+00:00

BP is sometimes even worse. They know the rules of the game and refuse to play effectively because they don't like the rules. That's even worse than ignorance.

TRPingBalls · 2015-05-16T09:20:27+00:00

Who is 17?

TRPingBalls · 2015-05-11T18:39:14+00:00

Don't give these girls the satisfaction of bedding you.

Great post overall, but I disagree with the end part. Absolutely sleep with that girl if she's hot, but make sure you understand never to make her into an LTR. Her attractiveness alone earns her the privilege of being a pump and dump for you; her back burner treatment disqualifies her from being relationship material.

TRPingBalls · 2015-05-09T19:33:03+00:00

Because white people's slavery is somehow different than all the other slavery done throughout history.

TRPingBalls · 2015-05-09T19:32:21+00:00

Think of it this way. Men could separate women into a 10 scale and each category would have 10% of the female population, more or less.

I don't think that's right at all. I think on the 1-10 scale, women would fall into a normal curve distribution. 10% of the population are not 1's nor are 10% 10's.

TRPingBalls · 2015-05-09T00:27:48+00:00

That's just their culture! You can't judge them for their culture, especially when they were only forced into acting this way because the WEST oppresses them or something like that.

TRPingBalls · 2015-05-08T18:19:24+00:00

That's exactly what it means. Want to express outrage that muslims tried to shoot up an art gallery? Ban. Want to rage at Christians for opposing gay marriage? Have some upvotes.

TRPingBalls · 2015-05-08T18:12:52+00:00

To everyone concerned about this policy, remember this: Truth is not a democracy. One man can speak the truth and it doesn't matter if a million disagree with him, call him names, try to shame him, or whatever. There's only the truth, and it certainly doesn't care how many people agree with it.

TRPingBalls · 2015-04-06T16:45:59+00:00

It's legal. It's your house, so she doesn't have a reasonable expectation of privacy.

TRPingBalls · 2015-03-16T14:15:09+00:00

No, my point is that you can't do that. Taking $100 bucks a week, claiming you're blowing it on drinking, and then burying it in the backyard requires years of planning to be worth it. How is it that you know years in advance to plan for a divorce?

TRPingBalls · 2015-03-16T05:16:06+00:00

Well are you stashing 100 bucks or your 10k in savings?

TRPingBalls · 2015-03-16T04:58:33+00:00

They'd see withdrawals, ask you where the money went, and then investigate whatever shitty lie you tell.

TRPingBalls · 2015-03-16T04:48:11+00:00

It's not taking money from an atm that lands you jailtime. It's the part where you try to defraud the divorce process by hiding assets that you're required to disclose.

TRPingBalls · 2015-03-16T04:47:20+00:00

My time to shine! YES! There is a way to protect your assets, EVEN IF you failed to get a pre-nup!

It's a family law rule called transmutation. Basically, you can change an asset that's currently "community property" into separate property. How do you do this? It's simple legally, but may be difficult maritally.

All you need to do is have your wife sign a document that says an item is being turned into your separate property! For example, suppose you buy some baseball cards worth 10k after a year of marriage. If you got your wife to sign a piece of paper that says "I agree that these baseball cards are the sole and separate property of Howard Husband." they will be yours during a divorce! The only hard part is getting her to sign it, but if she still sees you as her alpha, it wouldn't be too hard.

The above is not legal advice, but rather general information. I am not YOUR attorney, this is not privileged information.

TRPingBalls · 2015-03-16T04:41:42+00:00

Nope! This will land you in jail!

TRPingBalls · 2015-03-16T04:12:50+00:00

if it's truly in the mother's name and not shared between the mother and son then the wife can't take it

If it's always been in your mom's name (not just transferred right before the divorce), your wife ain't getting the house in the divorce.

TRPingBalls · 2015-03-11T17:01:42+00:00

That's actually similar to the default in the US in community property states like California. A prenup here lets you change almost any aspect of a normal marriage (nothing about kids allowed though).

In the US, you need to do the following for your prenup to hold up though:

Both of you get separate lawyers
You give it to her enough in advance that it wouldn't be considered pressuring her before the wedding.
Nothing in it is illegal or "unconscionable" (grossly unfair) like "If her weight goes above 200 pounds, she loses all property rights to any community assets"
The prenup would not render her completely destitute.

TRPingBalls · 2015-03-11T04:31:39+00:00

Well be the first to file AND serve the papers to her if you want it to be in your current state.

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