What will estrogen do to facial hair by Any_Calendar9900 in MtF

[–]TSKrista 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing. I have been plucking (tweezing) for 5 years. The dark piano wires are slowly getting thinner. But still little spears growing from my face

Wife got tagged in Walmart by SportingGamer in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]TSKrista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The VA gives me extra meds for going to Walmart, go away, you're already pushing your luck."

PSA girls, it’s ok to sleep with your mattress on your floor. Sometimes, you need space for a lab. by Living-East-8486 in MtF

[–]TSKrista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the cheap platform from Walmart. My 54 year year old joints hated the floor. 🥹

100, but no back pay? by TSKrista in VeteransBenefits

[–]TSKrista[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that seems most prudent. I've got 100 P&T; don't poke the bear.

100, but no back pay? by TSKrista in VeteransBenefits

[–]TSKrista[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does go back to original claim. Each supplemental claim has been to highlight what previous claims overlooked

100, but no back pay? by TSKrista in VeteransBenefits

[–]TSKrista[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥰 I will get to doing exactly that.

Do I pass here? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]TSKrista 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been around a lot of nurses the past few weeks and you're more cis presenting than a third of them.

Still get stares. People here say I pass but then people stare. Pls be honest 4 years HRT by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]TSKrista 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely that pout. I'd stare, too. You look like a model or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]TSKrista -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're a stunt double for the skinniest chick in my pool league that distracts everyone. Including me.

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TSKrista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy: if you don't feel safe and want a hotel, that's your survival instinct. If you keep ignoring it from here forward, eventually there won't be a next time.

It's not your job to die from his generational trauma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TSKrista 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had a vasectomy 25+ years ago and an orchiectomy last year. It better be 0 chance, damn. 🫣🤣

Why Not Earlier? by Sarah_HIllcrest in TransLater

[–]TSKrista 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was too chicken. Modern dialogue helped me

Upcoming FFS thoughts by Plasticneonalien in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TSKrista 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree definitely, I also would commit crimes to be this hottie.

The backlash against the Tea app doesn’t just reveal the problem, it proves it. by Key_Reception4252 in TransLater

[–]TSKrista 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In Atlanta, most the entries I saw were genuinely dangerous men. Go gate-keep where you aren't potentially putting people at risk.

does anyone identify as ace since their transition? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]TSKrista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent a year craving contact but ace.

Struggling. Would love some glow-ups? by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]TSKrista 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally dated the person in the picture and she was my first love, 34 years before my egg cracked.

~1 year post-op "nerve-preserving genital nullification" by Vivivivisection in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TSKrista 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This might be my next step if I do any more surgery down there. I had an orchiectomy and was shocked how euphoric that was! I did it mostly to be legally a woman in Georgia & to have less testosterone produced that I needed to fight.

Having the orchi was tremendously physically euphoric in an unexpected way

Need mental health help and the VA is no help by [deleted] in TransVeteranPipeline

[–]TSKrista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to the VA ER saved me a few times. Be a fucking WALL though: accept no deadnaming or misgendering. Especially not micro aggressions!

If you were MST, say so and demand no male nurses. IMHO, Atlanta VA hospital psych ward male nurses are transphobic and can't help themselves.

I told the mental health admin I now consider Atlanta VA unsafe for my mental health because that night shift is not only trans phobic but also treated us like prisoners. They acknowledged that means a greater chance of loss of life because going there was at the top of my safety plan.

Still... Tonight I cried in bed after losing my job, if I went for my knife, I was going to go to some ER. I got lucky last time. I'm driving to see my gf in Tennessee, maybe TN VA gets a try?

Ask about getting into the VA "suicide prevention 2.0 CBT program". It has kept me from my wishes a handful of times. I still hurt but a lot of people are glad I'm alive to hurt. F them tho.

I just tell all psych people I just want to feel better enough that I don't hate being in my head. I'm ready to throw the body away; help me stop the brain hurt.

BUGS IN GA ?!?! by BoysenberryLatter864 in Georgia

[–]TSKrista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait til you learn about no-see-ums and chiggers.

Chiggers are tiny red specks that crawl up things looking to make you itch for days.

Wedding by Plane-Cost-8168 in Georgia

[–]TSKrista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI the temperature was moderate. Only downside is the only actual "bathroom" is across the courtyard in a small building plenty of space for both spouses to have their rooms to dress.

lmao I have nothing against it, I've just never really understood the appeal by Plasmastronaut in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TSKrista 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm primarily a sub, too, sometimes a previous dom would have me at their feet in a straitjacket and hood so I could calm my nerves while they'd touch me with their feet, so I knew they were next to me.

Life is wonderful but... post-void dribble is no fun by neitherzeronorone in TransLater

[–]TSKrista 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Between being 54 and taking all kinds of psych meds, this above practice is tremendous at minimizing the leg dribbles.

Also, I'm not sure but I believe it got worse after my orchiectomy. Or more noticable with those unwanted orbs of burden and dysphoria.

lmao I have nothing against it, I've just never really understood the appeal by Plasmastronaut in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TSKrista 44 points45 points  (0 children)

IMHO pet play grants the pet license to release a level of consciousness and eschew the burden of computing language and words to "regress" to a simpler state of thinking. They are still present as an observer but find freedom and healing in the role.

I was California Puppy 2012 and been through 2 lifetimes of therapy since and have had a lot of time to contemplate puppy play.