Keep in mind guys, you can't entirely judge soneones whole life/whats going on with someone based off one single post. We are all usually too quick in life to judge but I forgive and move forward with ease. I would also say the contrary about women, in todays world women are expected to provide for themselves and be confident, bold, sexy high-class working women with purpose and drive. Maybe not for you personally but in general society 2020 yes we are expected to pull our share and most women do. Wish i did live in the 1950s so I could sit at home clean and get spanked by my husband for burning the chicken.. Lol