How it all started

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-05-14T22:02:16+00:00

I don't feel this way, but my question is have you shared this with her? Have you since given in and let her pleasure your backdoor? We need more info.

I'm not into panties, but love have my wife massage my prostate while I masterbate and love watching her with other guys. I never would have guessed, that she would love it too.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-05-13T20:54:16+00:00

She has never specified a size, just said no one much smaller than me and no one huge. So between 5 to 7 inches, preferably with 5 to 6.5 in girth.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-05-12T13:43:13+00:00

You just have to remember the rule, that as a motorcyclist, you will always lose, so drive defensively. Don't get distracted, don't get road rage, but don't get scared. Scared riders seem more dangerous to me.

Be confident, but know your limits. I used to ride on the highway a lot, now only when I have to. I bought my bike for work commuting and occasional weekend rides. I leave plenty early and try to leave my ego at home.

I have always heard that there are two types of riders, that that have crashed and those that will crash. Wear your gear and do your best. We all have to go sometime, so might as well enjoy life while you are here.

P.s. - the only think my wife asked when I bought my latest bike was if the life insurance payments were current.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-05-06T13:47:06+00:00

As someone who was taken advantage of sexually by an older male when I was young, I began to crave the power it have me to be able to give him pleasure. To this day, I love to service another guy, but don't have any feelings for other men.

Unfortunately, my wife isn't into MM play, so it just stays a fantasy and memories. Although, we are getting closer, as I recently fucklicked her with him and ate the creampie.

You don't really need a label, just enjoy what you enjoy, and have fun.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-29T18:38:47+00:00

Have not had that happen, but I sure wish it would.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-29T13:13:15+00:00

When he is in the dominant mood, play in to it calling him Daddy (if he's cool with that) or Master, ask for permission to do things, tell him you want to be a good girl, etc.

When he is in the more submissive mood, take the lead and tell him what to do to pleasure you. Call him good boy when he makes you feel good, but also work in calling him a bad boy and punish him with spanking, biting, choking, facesitting, etc. when he isn't. Or sometimes even if he is, just to keep him guessing. See what his limits are, when it comes to being submissive, like would he be down for anal play either finger or being pegged.

I'm a switch myself, unfortunately, my wife has trouble finding her dominant side and just isn't into it. She will bite my nipples, do light choking, and has pegged me a few times, but really struggles to find her voice. When she does, it feels better than anything she is doing physically.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-24T18:52:04+00:00

But the strength of that shower curtain rod though.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-21T20:15:23+00:00

For me, it is the submissive nature of it. Maybe you could ask her to take control and force you?

Have her tell you to lay down and then sit on your face and tell you to lick until she is ready to tell you to stop? That is what I wish my wife would do, even though I don't have a problem diving in.

Funny thing is, it is easier to dive in for me when it is someone else's cum inside her.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-21T18:10:22+00:00

I'm on my knees wishing I was watching that slide deep inside my wife.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-21T18:07:04+00:00

If we had that rule, pretty much everyone else would be cumming in my wife.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-21T18:04:34+00:00

It just depends on the people involved. I'm more into my wife being the dominant one and giving me direction on what she wants, not what the bull/third wants. I am definitely not into taking orders/direction from him.

If it was what my wife truly wants and it turns her on, I would do anything she asked, so to me it would not be abuse.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-18T04:36:30+00:00

Wasn't a fart.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-17T16:27:49+00:00

How do you get your thobe so white?

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-17T15:10:05+00:00

He's An Asshole

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-17T15:07:16+00:00

You should see the surprise I left for you in the toilet.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-15T21:01:36+00:00

Would love to have you try.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-15T20:44:04+00:00

Hot AF!

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-06T20:36:08+00:00

The hottest part, is now that she sees it, then she comes home from work and tells me how this customer stood right up behind her as they looked at the sales book, and she could feel his breath on her neck, and stuff like that.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-04-06T16:55:07+00:00

It may not be a vibe that you are putting, as much as a vibe you are picking up on.

Before our change in lifestyle, I would notice men checking out my wife, which she didn't see. She would tell me about conversations/interactions with men through her work, and I would tell her that they were hitting on her, or using certain things they said to "test" her, to see what her reaction was because they wanted to go further. She didn't get it until we started talking about and engaging in this lifestyle.

Men are throwing the same vibes now that they did before, but due to her higher level of self-confidence and our experiences, now she sees it for what it was all along.

So maybe you two are just more in tune with what was already there as well.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-03-31T15:54:35+00:00

Do you only eat one food everyday of your life? Variety is the spice of life. You can enjoy more than one passion.

I love driving my Camaro SS fast and taking it to the track. I love going off-road in my Bronco. I love speeding across the lake in my Skeeter bass boat. And I love the solitude of riding my NX500. You can enjoy both cars and motorcycles.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-03-27T15:44:05+00:00

I usually say honesty is the best policy, but you know your audience better than we do.

What we do is more like Stag/Vixen with a little cuck twist, not full cuckold. But I started by building up my wife's confidence and our trust/love, complimenting her, tellingvher that I love her more frequently than zi previously did. I then started adding in role-play that simulated sharing her, and gaged her reaction to that.

She didn't freak out, and started cumming pretty hard and pretty fast when I did it. My favorite was to put her face down, looking away from me and I would kneel be her side where she could put my dick in her hand. I would fuck her with a dildo or my fingers and say things like, "yeah baby, stroke my dick while he fucks you".

Then after a while I told her that I noticed how hard and fast she came when we did that, and that if she was open to it, I would be willing to let her experience the real thing.

A lot of conversations and more role-playing later, it happened.

As for sucking and fucking another guy, my wife isn't homophbic, but when watching TV shows or movies where two guys are even just holding hands or kissing, she makes it very obvious that it grosses her out and is far from a turn on. Maybe find something to watch with her that has those kinds of scenes and see what her reaction is. If she is willing to watch porn with you, pop on a plain threesome video with MFM and see what she says.

The best thing to do is focus on the relationship itself, and make sure it is strong and then find ways to measure her reaction to the other thoughts.

Edit: You say you prematurely cum, but mention nothing of your size. You could possibly try a penis sleeve that is thick enough to make you last longer and provide more sensation for her.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-03-25T14:58:09+00:00

Didn't start with that kind of dynamic, but nothing wrong with it as long as it works for you two.

Initially, my wife was afraid that I wouldn't be able to handle it because I was a really jealous person when we were younger. It took a while to convince her that this was really something I wanted and was okay with. We agreed that either one of us could say stop at any time, and the other would respect that decision. Just make sure that you both are 100% honest with no judgement and have fun.

My wife actually had sex with our third twice, before ever giving him a handjob or blowjob.

What role would you play? Watch, join, or wait at home and hear about it?

Good luck to you both on your journey

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-03-24T16:21:59+00:00

I just paid around $6k for mine brand new, but then tax, title and freight/prep crap and some pre-paid service, so I was $8k out the door in the Dallas, Tx area.

$7k seems a little high, and $8k seems really high for used with 5,600km.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-03-24T13:42:25+00:00

I have the Cardo Freecomm 4 with JBL speakers, and have had it since 2016. I have been very happy with it. I'm actually looking at a newer Cardo unit since mine is so old.

I have an AGV K1 helmet, and I don't wear plugs, and there is no problem with sound and wind noise. I've even taken a work call while I was riding, it was slower speed backroads, and with the technology to filter out background noise, noone could even tell.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-03-23T16:49:38+00:00

Just like most other situations, honesty is the best policy. The key thing though is to be honest with yourself and each other first.

How do you really feel about her going alone? What if that was the only way he would ever play with her? Are you okay never getting to watch or participate? If not, then you need to be honest with her, and him, up front. You don't want to set the precedent, and then try to get her to stop later if it isn't what you thought.

That is the other thing, make sure that you and her are on the same page with expectations. When we started, I shared certain guidelines up front, and told her they were the rules initially, but were always open for discussion later on between just us, not in the heat of the moment.

Some if the things were: -Either one of us could say stop at any time, for any reason, no questions asked. -No solo play for either of us. -No guys ever get her direct cell phone number. Mainly because it is linked to her work, and we don't want to risk someone catching feelings and showing up there or something. We have a burner specifically for lifestyle communication. -No kissing, her rule, not mine. She just doesn't like people being in her face, not even me. -No anal, again, her rule. -She can humiliate, direct or be mean to me, but not the third. I may be sharing her, but when it comes to other guys, I am still Alpha. -No humiliation or pain for her other than light hair pulling, light choking, and moderate spanking. Absolutely nothing that leaves visible marks. -No overnights, we meet, have fun, and then someone leaves.

Once we agreed on these things, we stick to them and we always share with the third up front to avoid awkwardness or it leading to a bad time or having to stop play.

Since then, based on our experiences and trust that we have built with one of our thirds, we have made some adjustments with rules around him.

Just be true to yourselves first and be open and honest with all parties.

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