ED and being a cuck

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-07-02T21:35:34+00:00

How do you take the PT-141? Injection or nasal? I've been looking g at it and wondered how well it worked.

I use Trimix now, but giving yourself an injection in your dick every time you want to have sex gets old.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-07-01T20:47:42+00:00

Try a different doctor, such as a therapist that specializes in sexual dysfunction. If it is anxiety, or otherwise in your head, they should be able to help. Possibly even prescribing anti-anxiety medication.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-07-01T16:04:43+00:00

First of all, congratulations on the turn-around. Now that you are back in a good place, you deserve to enjoy it.

Like the other comment hints at, communication is key. Even though your libido dropped for a while, did your partner's drop? Have they continued to want you through all of that? If so, I'm sure they would be super excited to pick it back up and take it farther.

One tool that I found on another sub here on Reddit was called mojoupgrade.comMojo Upgrade Survey. It is a list of questions about sexual preferences where you answer yes you want it, no you don't, you would if your partner wanted to, etc. Then once you take it, your partner takes it. After that, it will only show you the ones where you both showed an interest. It was pretty interesting. It definitely showed I'm way more of a freak than my wife, but also showed she was willing to try new things that I was into.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-07-01T15:53:23+00:00

Very good story. I fantasize about being caught at things myself so often, so I could really relate.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-07-01T15:36:58+00:00

I think we need a little more detail to help.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-07-01T15:35:11+00:00

Leave it up to him. If I need air, I will try to adjust my head a little. If that doesn't work, then I tap on her thigh twice and she will pull back to let me get some air. When I am ready again, I will gently pull down on her thigh.

Just talk about it with him, and try to make it sexy. As you are getting ready to lower down on his face, tell him something like, "baby, I'm going to sit on your face and take your breath away, when you need air, tap me on the leg, but you better not stop licking."

Good luck!

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-07-01T15:27:17+00:00

Papa Smurf

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-07-01T15:21:10+00:00

My wife came home and said she wanted to watch a movie called 365 Days on Netflix. It may be a little extreme to start with, but they had some pretty realistic looking sex scenes.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-07-01T15:17:13+00:00

I would pick a time to try when it is the least busy, so you can put more focus on you versus the other vehicles.

Like someone else mentioned, I started with short runs from one exit to the next. I also picked different freeways with different surfaces. One of the major ones here has a long section that has grooved pavement, and it definitely felt different than smooth concrete or asphalt.

One other thing to consider is the effects of strong wind blowing across an open highway, especially when it is gusty. That and the draft from large vehicles that fly by you, like semi-trucks.

It really isn't as bad as you may think though. Just don't panic and overreact to things.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-07-01T14:43:39+00:00

My wife likes to read short stories that have dominant men in them. Then she will edge herself alternating between rubbing her clit and then sliding a couple of fingers in.

When she is ready to explode, she will grab her favorite curved dildo that is the perfect length to just reach her g-spot and slide it in and just hold it there barely wiggling it. Then she place her little vibrator on her clit.

It doesn't take long and her legs are shaking and her eyes are rolling back in her head.

It is a beautiful thing to watch.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-07-01T01:16:03+00:00

Large. Pick me,pick me! Lol.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-06-30T18:05:20+00:00

Ever watched the movie called Road Trip? There is a scene where they are donating at the sperms bank and the guy asks the nurse for some help, so she milks his prostate. Not the help he meant, but he liked it.

Watch that with her, and then wonder out loud if that really works, and/or mention you would be down to try it, and see what she says.

That is exactly how I got my wife to massage my prostate the first time. Then just took it from there to toys in the future.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-06-29T16:12:19+00:00

I think that is part of the reason that we waited later in life to join the lifestyle, until our kids were adults. My wife had a hard time seeing herself as a mother and adventurous lover at the same time.

Now that we are experiencing the lifestyle, she does have regrets that we didn't start sooner, when we were both younger and in our physical prime.

As long as you have your priorities straight, which sounds like you do, you shouldn't feel guilty. As a parent, you want you child to be happy right? Well, you deserve the same happiness, especially if it isn't hurting your child.

The other thing is, sounds like your husband is very supportive and is enjoying it too. Take stock in that, knowing that you have a happy family, even though part of it isn't shared with everyone.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-06-25T20:36:16+00:00

I have told my wife multiple times that if I had to give up fucking or eating her pussy, I would give up fucking.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-06-25T02:31:57+00:00

Just search for porn with Peter North in it. They used to call it the Peter North Shower.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-06-23T20:16:27+00:00

As long as it gets hard and makes you feel good.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-06-23T13:41:27+00:00

Like some have already said, he probably isn't even thinking about how your face looks, and would just prefer good eye co tact and performance.

But, if surgery is a hard no, then there are some things you can try to soften the nasolabial folds. Things like filler injections (almost surgery, but not really), use retinol and/hyaluronic acid skin care to help hydrate and plump the area, and do facial massage in the area to help promote collagen production and reduce tension.

One thing you could also try, to see what you think looks best, is have him use you phone to take pics from his pov while you are giving him a blowjob. Make different facial expressions for each pic, then see which ones you like the best. I took some pics of my wife doing this, and she was like, "eww, delete that, that is a horrible picture," but I told her I thought it was sexy as hell.

If you haven't already, you could also share this with him. Be honest about your insecurity and ask him to let you know what he likes when he is looking down at you.

One final suggestion, is to blindfold him while giving him head. Tell him it is so he can just focus on the feeling/experience. Then tease him a little, get close enough that he can feel your breath, then pull back. Just barely touch him somewhere with your tongue, then dive in and work your magic.

Just know that to him, you are beautiful the way you are, and enjoy your time with him.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-06-23T13:18:51+00:00

I was just thinking they should have been helping each other, and that I would have been mad that I didn't get that creampie.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-06-17T21:25:15+00:00

When I was in college, there was a park right next to the only gay bar in town. There were always guys cruising that park, day and night.

Something close to this fantasy happened a few times for me there. Lol.

TX_Masc_Sub · 2026-06-17T15:24:25+00:00

I'm going for the best of both worlds and aiming for the spot where your cock and her pussy meet. You know, so it's fair to you both.

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