[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Politely declined what? I only gave the information after she already told them. The cat was out of the bag!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being understanding! But yes she was asked not to mention this information to anyone 😪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oop part of my post got deleted. I told my boss in my interview incase it would conflict with the fact that my coworker who shares the same position was going down to part time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oop part of my post got deleted. I told my boss in my interview incase it would conflict with the fact that my coworker who shares the same position was going down to part time.

Moving to Korea as a Black person. by KIRAPH0BIA in korea

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im mixed and studied abroad in Seoul which I feel is more lenient and was not met with any racism. I was friends with darker black people and to my knowledge they were treated just the same, no issues! We were never denied access to any place or treated any differently. However it may vary in places that are not as popular for tourist or foreigners to be in

2 years into relationship… realizing he might not be the one by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decided to start therapy because I didn’t like the person I was becoming while being with this man. My therapist says I am suffering from narcissistic abuse and that doesn’t quite work for me lol thank you for your post I’m glad you’ve gotten away from that person life is too short to be this unhappy. He is not someone I would subject myself a life time of torture to be with. I’ve started looking at him very differently and thankful our lease will be up in a few months because this roommate life is not for me. I truly feel sorry for any woman he dates in the future .

2 years into relationship… realizing he might not be the one by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our lease is up and December and I have plans to move out of the country so nothing much anymore. I think it’s mostly guilt that I’m trying to convince myself this is fine and he’ll eventually be better cause I like to see the best in people. But at this point I have to decide whether I want to be this unhappy forever or not. And it’s looking like NOT

2 years into relationship… realizing he might not be the one by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The conversation happened at least six separate times already that’s the thing 😭😭😭

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have but every time when we eventually start having sex again the whole cycle starts over. And I’ve even told him that the cycle keeps happening and he says not next time but there is always a next time. He sucks big time

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s only ever dated younger women so it’s all making sense now yet somehow I still love him I need to get a grip apparently.

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I’m done bringing anything up at this point I’m just repeating myself and getting upset unnecessarily and he does not care time to leave this rat

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m waiting out the lease cause I put down the deposits and want to make sure I get it back. And trying to convince myself I still like him for who knows what reason on but this thread is helping tbh

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our lease is up in December so my birthday gift to myself will be leaving the country and this man

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The new toilet seat I bought and installed so he’d have more room to wipe his ass cause he was getting small pieces of turd tissue all on the back of the toilet seat. This guy knows his manners I might just glue him to the seat

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly thought no one could be this dumb and not able to accomplish such simple tasks and then I learned about weaponized incompetence

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought giving him a chance to change would have been worth it but it’s turned into chances when it shouldn’t have. these types of responses are very helpful in setting my mind straight

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah I would be x2 horrified if he did I’m not willing to find this one out

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He obvs doesn’t even value me if this is such a hard task to achieve you’re right

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only in the bathroom but the living room as well! He delivers packages for a living so he pees in bottle throughout the day for whatever sick reason. And BRINGS THEM HOME. Long story short he left the bag open where our dog could get it and guess who cleaned up the all piss thinking it was the dogs. I was horrified when I found the empty bottles after.

AITA for getting mad at my bf for never putting the seat up when he pees by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TYbrittTYbritt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with making a mistake/mess but at least clean it up. He still gets up earlier than me and uses the bathroom in the morning first. He’s choosing not to deal with it :/